Is there ever a situation where cheating is justified? If you got cheated on, what would be your next move?

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Here are great ways to do some helpful stuff for black/brown folk.

Please donate to:

Minnesota Freedom Fund, Bail Project, Black Lives Matter movement

Please sign this:

Petition for the NAACP

Petition for Change.org: https://www.change.org/p/andy-beshear-justice-for-breonna-taylor?source_location=topic_page

and

https://www.change.org/p/hold-minneapolis-officers-accountable-for-killing-george-floyd-as-he-begs-don-t-kill-me-bring-first-degree-murder-and-third-degree-manslaughter-charges-to-the-officers-involved?source_location=topic_page

and

https://www.change.org/p/south-african-police-service-justice-for-police-and-military-brutality-during-lockdown-south-africa?original_footer_petition_id=&grid_position=&pt= 

Please watch this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=slbNdBuQzKw 

https://youtu.be/EUeuZ5xYDB

This week we talk about White Saviour Complex. Not the Biblical kind.

P.S. You don't need to do all that saving. We just want less racism. Just a smidge.

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Can't fight the urge? Here are great ways to do some helpful stuff for black/brown folk.

Here is my favourite video on White Saviours in movies

A tweet on Ellen Pompeo not taking confrontation on racial issues well (she has otherwise been a great ally to the black community)

*Apologies for brief distortion caused by sound pops*

The first episode of a new segment called On This Day.

On this day (almost), we learn of a tragedy that happened 16 years ago. 

What crime shook you the most? Comment under a post on Pillowtalking! Instagram

Should we be cancelling Cancel Culture? I know; the irony isn't lost on me.

Follow Pillowtalking! on Instagram and comment what you think about cancel culture.

Today I read a section of a piece I wrote about Gender-based violence in South Africa. 

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A BLM Playlist 

Black Businesses

Today I read an article I wrote for a friend's blog: from the eyes of a young black woman in predominantly white spaces. 

The site 

My site

A BLM Playlist 

Donate to the Minnesota Freedom Fund: https://minnesotafreedomfund.org/donate

Donate to the Bail Project: https://secure.givelively.org/donate/the-bail-project

Donate to the Black Lives Matter movement: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/ms_blm_homepage_2019

Sign this petition for the NAACP: https://www.naacp.org/takeaction-petition/

Sign this petition for Change.org: https://www.change.org/p/andy-beshear-justice-for-breonna-taylor?source_location=topic_page 

and https://www.change.org/p/hold-minneapolis-officers-accountable-for-killing-george-floyd-as-he-begs-don-t-kill-me-bring-first-degree-murder-and-third-degree-manslaughter-charges-to-the-officers-involved?source_location=topic_page

and

https://www.change.org/p/south-african-police-service-justice-for-police-and-military-brutality-during-lockdown-south-africa?original_footer_petition_id=&grid_position=&pt= 

Please watch this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=slbNdBuQzKw 

https://youtu.be/EUeuZ5xYDBQ 

Today we talk about the fatigue black, brown and Asian folk experience during racial conversations and tensions. We also talk about being a good ally, what COVID-19 and police brutality have taught us about racism and our inner circles. 

Please donate to:

Minnesota Freedom Fund

Bail Project

Black Lives Matter movement

Please sign this:

Petition for the NAACP

Petition for Change.org: https://www.change.org/p/andy-beshear-justice-for-breonna-taylor?source_location=topic_page 

and 

https://www.change.org/p/hold-minneapolis-officers-accountable-for-killing-george-floyd-as-he-begs-don-t-kill-me-bring-first-degree-murder-and-third-degree-manslaughter-charges-to-the-officers-involved?source_location=topic_page

and 

https://www.change.org/p/south-african-police-service-justice-for-police-and-military-brutality-during-lockdown-south-africa?original_footer_petition_id=&grid_position=&pt= 

Please watch this: 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=slbNdBuQzKw 

https://youtu.be/EUeuZ5xYDBQ 

Join me in navigating the decision to have a child.

Disclaimer: none of these considerations are compulsory. I understand that everyone has different situations and different kinds of families. This is simply a conversation for those who have the opportunity/liberty to run through every consideration.  Please do what works best for you.