In this episode of the Pipped Off trading podcast, Alex and Mike talk about the crossroads between trading, career, and real life money decisions. From shifting away from lower‑timeframe day trading into more realistic swing trading, to selling an apartment after a 400% gain, they dig into what “being a trader” actually looks like when you have a job, a family, and bills.Alex opens up about feeling like a cockney Brummie with an identity crisis – growing up between the Midlands and the Middle East – before admitting he is also at a major turning point in his trading. A new, demanding role means he can no longer stare at charts all day, so he is debating moving his gold trading to 1‑hour and 4‑hour swing setups, using limit orders and strict risk, or stepping away from active trading altogether.They discuss:🔴 Why certain jobs and trading styles are simply incompatible (you can’t be on the 1‑minute chart if your role needs 110% focus).🔴 How to adapt from scalping to swing trading using zones, higher timeframes and smaller size instead of “fatty positions”.🔴 The reality that even with a passed prop firm account, you may still need a primary career and can’t rely solely on trading income.The conversation widens into the full‑time trader dream vs real financial buffers. Mike explains why going full‑time when you are not yet consistently profitable is a huge risk without a sizeable cash cushion, and why so many traders end up in education/influencer roles to smooth income while they still improve their edge. Alex agrees that having all your eggs in the “trading only” basket creates unnecessary stress and can quickly lead to not being able to pay your bills after a bad run.Later, they dive into investing, liquidity and diversification:🔴 Alex has shifted from throwing all spare cash into trading to “heavily investing” instead – but now worries about being too illiquid if he lost his job.🔴 They talk about needing some cashflow, some longer‑term investments, and not being too deep on any single side (trading, crypto, property, or markets).Mike then shares a big move on his side: actually selling his apartment. He bought it pre‑development at a very low price over a decade ago, has roughly quadrupled his investment, and now wants to lock in that 400% gain by liquidating instead of sitting on unrealised equity while the global economic outlook feels “wobbly”. He explains why he and his wife plan to sit on the cash for a while, wait to see what happens with markets, and only then decide where and what to buy next.They tie it back to trading logic: until you close the position, the profit isn’t real, and you don’t want to be forced to exit an investment just because you suddenly need cash. Alex mentions riding his crypto up 5x multiple times and back down again, and why a more holistic money strategy – cash buffer, investments, and measured risk – is essential for traders who want to survive the next crisis as well as the next bull run.If you’re a retail forex or prop firm trader juggling a career, family, and the dream of going full‑time, this episode will hit close to home. It is packed with honest discussion about swing vs day trading, funding accounts, diversification, property, crypto and long‑term financial safety – not just chart patterns.👉 Share your own anonymous trading confession: pippedoff.comDisclaimer: The Pipped Off Podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute financial, investment, legal, tax, or other professional advice. Nothing in this podcast should be considered a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any financial product or strategy. Trading and investing involve significant risk, including the risk of losing all capital, and are not suitable for every person. Always do your own research and, where appropriate, consult a licensed financial professional before making any financial decisions.