Listen as my two African American sons explain how they feel the need to get into a position of submission when encountering police officers. They realize that the best thing to do is  
de-escalate the situation and allow me or his dad to engage once they are safely at home. We talk about dating as well, both within and outside of their race. Also, dating  today does not resemble how we met our mates or significant others in the past. What's the deal with the apps. We will hit it all.