Placemarker 4 Perversion Podcast

This in-depth conversation between Mistress Leanne and Mistress Audry Lu Black explores the art of high protocol in BDSM and the importance of mentorship and community. Mistress Leanne talks about her mentor, Mistress Ellen, and the lessons she learned that help her navigate the changing landscape of BDSM culture. They also share personal stories and visions for the community's future.

Resources discussed today include: Canes made by Lumbersnackster, fetlife: @lumbersnackster The English Governess by John Glassco.

Producers: Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria, and Lavender; Sound Editor: Primrose; Music Creators: Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

This episode features Mistress Audry Lu Black and Mistress Mia Darque discussing the evolving landscape of digital dominance and the meeting of technology and sexuality. They talk about the importance of authenticity and genuine connections in the digital age. This episode features candid conversations on race, personal boundaries, online scams, and the realities of being a professional dominatrix. Mia and Audry Lu share personal stories and practical advice for navigating the complexities of BDSM, online safety, and self-care.

Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria and Lavender; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Photograph by Photos by Julia (IG: SlaveGirlJulia)

In this episode, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Lumbersnackster explore the art and craft of kink toy making. Lumbersnackster shares his personal journey from creator to pro-dom and shares the creative processes behind some of his most popular pieces. They also talk about the importance of safety and communication when it comes to impact play. Lumbersnackster provides advice for practitioners and enthusiasts alike!

Trigger Warning: blood play

The resources discussed today are Lumbersnackster’s personal designs. You can find them on Fetlife @lumbersnackster

Producers: Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria and Lavender; Sound Editor: Primrose; Music Creators: Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

As a special treat, we're releasing this segment from our upcoming episode 'Whips and Flails and Dragon Tails, That's What Pro-doms Are Made Of'. (Coming out October 1st, 2026).

Mistress Audry Lu Black and Lumbersnackster take a chance to discuss their favorite impact toys, and the works of art he crafts into beautiful tools.

September 27th, Placemarker4Perversion Podcast will be hosting a fundraising event at our booth for Folsom Street Fair! Our booth neighbor and friend of the podcast, Lumbersnackster will be there, too, showcasing his beautiful handcrafted kinky equipment! Follow them and our podcast team on social media for updates from the fair, and more!

Lumbersnackster (IG: @lumbersnackster)

Placemarker4Perversion (IG: @thep4ppodcast)

As a special treat, we're releasing this sneak peak from our upcoming episode 'Whips and Flails and Dragon Tails, That's What Pro-doms Are Made Of'. (Coming out October 1st, 2026).

We hope you enjoy this clip of Dom, Sub, Switch, where Mistress Audry Lu Black and Lumbersnackster review the characters of Veggie Tales through the DSS lens.

September 27th, Placemarker4Perversion Podcast will be hosting a fundraising event at our booth for Folsom Street Fair! Our booth neighbor and friend of the podcast, Lumbersnackster will be there, too, showcasing his beautiful handcrafted kinky equipment! Follow them and our podcast team on social media for updates from the fair, and more!

Lumbersnackster (IG: @lumbersnackster)

Placemarker4Perversion (IG: @thep4ppodcast)

In this episode, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Elizabeth Black, LCSW-BACS, LICSW, take a deep dive into the world of kink-informed therapy. They unpack crucial concepts like the difference between triggers and activations, how age play can help address attachment wounds, and why true consent goes far beyond a simple "yes" in both therapeutic and kink contexts. They also challenge the conventional wisdom around self-care. Elizabeth advocates instead for self-maintenance that actually brings joy rather than just checking boxes on a wellness to-do list. They emphasize that in both kink and therapy, understanding the distinction between hurt and harm is vital—some discomfort can lead to growth, but damage is never acceptable. Ultimately, they point out how kink can teach lessons on communication, emotional responsibility, and healing that extend beyond the bedroom or dungeon.

Resources Discussed During This Episode:

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

Unfuck Your Kink by Dr. Faith Harper

Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria and Lavender; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation with Mistress Audry Lu Black, Jon AKA HiThereCatsuit, a podcaster and kink enthusiast, shares his personal journey of embracing gender fluidity and breaking societal labels. He lends insight into authentic storytelling, kink as self-care, and the creation of safe, community-driven spaces. They talk about vulnerability, respect, and genuine connection, and how they empower personal growth in the kink world.

Referenced in the episode:

NCSF – National Coalition of Sexual Freedom

The Invitation to a Brave Space by Mickey ScottBey Jones

You can find the Authentically Kinky podcast at:

https://open.spotify.com/show/4MaAh0jnNfwSA3EFxyeoad?si=7ceca68de2864e13

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria and Lavender; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu and Slave X delve into the evolution of female domination, exploring the complexities of kink, masculinity, and entitlement. Slave X shares his personal journey from a confused alpha male to a content creator in the Femdom space, discussing the importance of understanding one's own privilege. They also touch on the empowerment that comes from embracing one's true self through Femdom service. The dialogue includes the complexities of adult entertainment, particularly focusing on the dynamics of professionalism, the realities of Femdom porn, and the importance of authenticity in fetish exploration.

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Lavender and Wisteria; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this engaging conversation, Maid Rosie shares his journey into the world of kink and service submission with Mistress Audry Lu Black. They discuss the significance of his maid persona and the role of uniforms in service roles. The dialogue explores the evolution of identity within the kink community and the dynamics of trust and safety in dominance and submission. Maid Rosie emphasizes the joy of dressing up and the unique experiences that come with being a service submissive.

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria and Lavender; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Sydney the Fat Troublemakr delve into the complexities of grief within polyamorous relationships, particularly focusing on the often unacknowledged and deferred grief that arises from losing a partner. They discuss the societal expectations surrounding grief, the lack of resources available for those navigating loss in polyamorous contexts, and the importance of creating systems to ensure that loved ones are informed in the event of a tragedy. The conversation emphasizes the need for open discussions about planning for the unexpected. They discuss the importance of memory and legacy, and the unique challenges faced when navigating grief with metamours. They also highlight the significance of believing in grievers' experiences and the importance of creating tangible memories of lost loved ones.

This episode’s content warnings include: discussions about death, grief, loss and family trauma

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria and Lavender; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger