This week on That’s Fun, Nikki and Damaris are headed to Miami for the SoBe Wine & Food Festival, and they’re breaking down how to actually make the fun happen on a girls’ trip (instead of just hoping the destination does the work).

They get into the real stuff that can make or break a vacation: setting expectations with your travel buddy (how long do you take to get ready, are you a breakfast person, what’s your ideal bedtime?), building in intentional downtime so you don’t burn out by day two, and giving yourselves permission to split up when you want different things.

Plus: their favorite “fun catalysts,” from planning outfits and packing little comforts from home, to a genius strategy for pacing drinks, to why every trip needs one brand-new adventure—even if it’s a little weird. (Spoiler: they found a Museum of Sex.)

Pack your pillow. Pack your patience. And pack one unhinged accessory for the group chat photos. Let’s go!