If play feels like one more thing on your list, this episode is going to change that. Albiona sits down with Dr. Kim Van Dusen — registered play therapist, licensed marriage and family therapist, and author of Parenting Through Play — to talk about what play actually is, why parents have it backwards, and how a more playful approach leads to less defiance, fewer meltdowns, and a home that just feels better.

Dr. Kim brings 20 years of clinical experience and 12 years of parenting into a conversation that is practical, permission-giving, and full of ideas you can use today — even on your most exhausted days.

Inside, they explore:

→  Why most parents misunderstand play — and why the parent who says “play isn’t for me” is actually the one who needs this most

→  The connection between play and behavior: why kids who feel connected through play are more likely to listen, cooperate, and follow through — and what happens when that connection is missing

→  How to handle tantrums, power struggles, and resistant kids using play-based strategies that actually work — including the sand timer trick and how to gamify chores

→  Why independent play matters more than most parents realize — and why boredom is a problem for kids to solve, not parents to fix

→  Practical play ideas for the transitions that drain you most: mealtime, bedtime, morning routines, and getting out the door — without the fight

About Dr. Kim Van Dusen:

Dr. Kim Van Dusen is a registered play therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist with nearly 20 years of clinical experience. She is the author of Parenting Through Play, a research-backed, practical guide that combines play therapy, solution-focused therapy, and PBIS to help parents build deeper connection and better behavior — without the power struggles.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

→  Get Parenting Through Play by Dr. Kim Van Dusen

→  Follow Dr. Kim on Instagram — @theparentologist

→  Visit Dr. Kim’s website — theparentologist.com

→  Listen to The Parentologist Podcast — available wherever you listen to podcasts

Connect with Albiona:

→  Book a Free Discovery Call (1:1 Coaching) — https://www.theparentingreframe.com/coaching

→  Follow Albiona on Instagram — @theparentingreframe

→  Join Albiona’s Paid Substack Community — https://theparentingreframe.substack.com

→  Email Albiona directly — [email protected]

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Until next time,

Albiona 🤎

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