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On this episode of Playing 4 Keeps, Ms. Tee joins DJ for a candid conversation about toxic dating cycles, inconsistency, grief, overgiving, and finally learning when enough is enough.

Ms. Tee opens up about a nearly decade-long on-and-off connection with a man who eventually got married—on her birthday—only to circle back into her life later. When they finally had the opportunity to seriously explore a relationship, the same inconsistency and disappointment resurfaced.
She also reflects on losing a longtime partner, how grief changed the way she approaches relationships, and why she refuses to spend another decade caught in a runner-chaser dynamic. At 41, Ms. Tee says her tolerance for games, dishonesty, and mixed signals is gone. If you don't make your intentions clear, she's getting off the exit.

The conversation gets even deeper as DJ and Ms. Tee unpack what happens when you're naturally a giver but realize you've been pouring too much into people who aren't matching your effort. Ms. Tee talks about no longer wanting to date “projects,” wanting a man who is intentional, values her time, and can grow with her instead of expecting her to fix, motivate, or carry him.

From dating in Atlanta to whether you're really “single until you're married,” this episode is about breaking old patterns, protecting your time, and figuring out how to receive the love you want without returning to the habits that drained you in the first place.

Playing 4 Keeps — where dating is a mess, but we keep it moving.

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What happens when dating expectations, culture, masculinity, money, and identity all collide?

This week on Playing 4 Keeps, DJ sits down with Vigilante (@vigilantelom) for a conversation that challenges some of the most common ideas about modern relationships. From entitlement and reciprocity to traditional roles, family influence, and what we should actually be looking for in a partner, Vigilante has some strong opinions—and DJ isn’t letting any of them slide without a little pushback.

The conversation gets provocative, uncomfortable, and surprisingly personal as they unpack how the lives we build, the things we believe, and even where we come from can shape the way we love.

And when Vigilante shares one of his wildest dating experiences, the conversation around who should pay takes a whole different turn.

This is definitely one of those episodes where you’ll pick a side.

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What happens when you spend nearly $200 on a first date, only to hear, “I don’t see a romantic connection”?

On this episode of Playing 4 Keeps, DJ sits down with Sean Garvey for a conversation about dating expectations, rejection, money, accountability, and what men and women really owe each other after a date.

Sean shares the story of taking a woman out, covering the entire bill, and later jokingly asking for his money back after she told him she wasn’t interested. He also opens up about how his perspective has changed since then, why he now believes some dating lessons simply come with a cost, and how getting to know someone before rushing into a date can save time, money, and disappointment. 

But the conversation does not stop there. Sean gets personal about a past relationship that pushed him outside of his comfort zone, challenged how he saw himself, and led to unexpected experiences around intimacy, identity, and personal growth. He and DJ also unpack the difference between being challenged in a relationship and losing yourself trying to become what someone else wants.  

And when it comes to what Sean wants now, he makes one thing clear: he is not interested in dating just for the experience anymore. He is looking to build with someone who is healed, intentional, open-minded, and ready for something real. 

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Cayla is dating with one goal in mind: finding a husband. She knows her non-negotiables, values consistency, and is not afraid to walk away when something does not align.

But one first date tested everything. What started as drinks, dinner, and a strong connection quickly turned into jealousy, an unnecessary confrontation, and a fight that nearly sent her date over a second-floor balcony.

Cayla joins DJ to talk about recognizing insecurity early, knowing the difference between reacting from trauma and learning from it, practicing abstinence while dating, and why she is finally open to trying a more intentional dating app.

Follow Cayla on Instagram at @thecayladee.

Crazy stories. Real love. Let’s get into it.

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In this episode of Playing 4 Keeps, DJ sits down with music consultant Shay, @1missstorm, for an honest conversation about dating-app love, overlooked red flags, love bombing, betrayal, and the danger of falling in love with someone’s carefully created image.

Shay opens up about how the relationship began, why she trusted him, and how consistency, generosity, and support made her believe she had found the real thing. She also shares how her faith helped her recognize what she could no longer ignore and gave her the strength to walk away from a life that looked perfect from the outside.

DJ and Shay also discuss healing after betrayal, celibacy, emotional safety, ambition, self-love, masculine and feminine energy, and why honesty, transparency, stability, and prayer will be nonnegotiable in Shay’s next relationship.

This episode is a reminder that someone can give you everything you asked for and still hide who they truly are.

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Lamont broke one rule, got caught with another woman, and ended up ducking behind his car while the woman he was dating fired shots.

In this episode of Playing 4 Keeps, DJ sits down with 44-year-old day trader and real estate investor Lamont to hear a dating story that nearly cost him his life. What started as a casual situation involving three people became dangerous when Lamont secretly continued seeing the other woman and broke the one agreement they had made.

But the conversation does not stop with the shooting. DJ challenges Lamont on whether he actually lied, what accountability looks like when there are no official titles, and whether past relationship experiences should affect how much trust a new person receives. They also debate exclusivity, clean slates, moving with caution, and why trust should be earned through consistency, loyalty, and actions.

Lamont may be older and wiser now, but DJ still has questions about how much he has really changed.

Lamont is also available on the Playing 4 Keeps dating app. Swipe right, play the compatibility game, and see whether you are his match.

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What happens when your high school sweetheart comes back ten years later with an engagement ring, nearly $2,000 in checks, and a plan to scam you out of your rent money?

In this episode of Playing 4 Keeps, DJ sits down with Atlanta host, stylist, mother, grandmother, and full-time student Nikki Lee for a raw and hilarious conversation about modern dating, relationship red flags, long-distance love, bisexuality, healing, and dating with intention.

Nikki shares the shocking story of reconnecting with a man who once owed her $400. After months of talking, he flew to Atlanta, proposed in a restaurant, promised her a new life, and appeared to repay everything he owed. By Monday morning, Nikki learned the checks were fake, the engagement ring was glass, and the entire romantic weekend had been funded with money he stole from her bank account.

What makes this story even wilder is that Nikki later discovered she was not his only victim.

DJ and Nikki also get honest about consistency versus constant communication, recognizing emotionally unavailable partners, protecting your peace, and why Black singles cannot allow good chemistry or great sex to distract them from obvious warning signs.

Through every betrayal and dating disappointment, Nikki refuses to become bitter. Her philosophy is simple: never a failure, always a lesson.

Follow Nikki Lee on Instagram at @iamnikki_lee.

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In this reintroduction to Playing 4 Keeps, host DJ Robinson shares the unbelievable dating story that helped inspire her to create a dating app built for Atlanta singles.

What started as a same-day dating-app match quickly turned into a whirlwind connection filled with warning signs. Within two weeks, DJ had rented a car in the man’s name, arrived at a Walmart surrounded by police and discovered that the person she had been dating was carrying multiple identities, credit cards and secrets—including the fact that she did not even know his real name.

But the story did not end with his arrest. DJ opens up about the decisions she made afterward, the red flags she ignored and the turbulent relationship that followed. She also takes accountability for the healing and personal growth that helped her understand why she remained in a situation she had every opportunity to leave.

That experience eventually became part of the foundation for Playing 4 Keeps—an app designed to help singles understand themselves more deeply through emotional intelligence, attachment theory, personality assessments and intentional dating.

DJ also introduces the new direction of the podcast, shares one of her biggest dating red flags and pet peeves, and invites Atlanta singles to bring their funniest, wildest and most meaningful dating stories to the show.

The goal is not just to find more matches. It is to help people know themselves, recognize the signs and choose better—because real love starts with self-awareness.

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Dating after a breakup can feel confusing, overwhelming, and emotionally risky.
You want connection again—but you don’t want to repeat the same mistakes or reopen old wounds.

In this video, I’m breaking down:

• How to know if you’re actually ready to date again
• Common mistakes people make after a breakup
• How to date without projecting past hurt onto new people
• What healthy, intentional dating really looks like after heartbreak

This isn’t about rushing back into love or forcing yourself to “move on.”
 It’s about dating with clarity, self-respect, and emotional awareness.

If you’re healing from a breakup and wondering how to date again without hurting yourself, this video is for you.

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In this episode, we explore the importance of staying grounded and centered while navigating the often tumultuous waters of dating and relationships. Discover strategies for maintaining your sense of self amidst the highs and lows of romance, and learn how to cultivate a balanced approach to love that prioritizes personal growth and emotional well-being. Join us for insightful discussions and practical tips on fostering healthy connections without losing sight of who you are.

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