You have flaws, but, you also have good things about yourself.  When you look at yourself, which do you see?  Other people can be annoying, loud, self-centered, but, they can also be a source of strength, of comfort, of friendship.  When you look at others, which qualities do you see?  When you look at your life, your current situation, where you are today... what do you see?  Your successes, or, your failures?