* God delivered a message to Pilate through his wife.
* God speaks to us through others, especially our spouses.
* God could’ve given the dream to Pilate but He chose to do it through his wife. Why?
* I believe one of the reasons is to place honor upon the marriage covenant.
* The two are one, so if God gives one a message He’s giving it to both.
* vs 24 - when he washed his hands he was actually refusing to use his power to release Jesus.
* Pilate feared the people more than God and he valued his position more than his own wife.
* He did the opposite of what his wife asked him to do.
* Can you imagine the conversation with his wife after this?
* She might have said, "I told you not to have anything to do with this man, but you went and handed Him over to be killed. Why didn't you listen to me?"
* To which he may have responded, "But the people were getting out of hand and if a riot broke out I would have lost my position as governor."
* In that moment what do you think she probably felt like?
* “Pilate cares more about his position than me. He elevated his job over his wife.”
* The one thing a woman needs in order to feel loved is priority - she must be prioritized.
* Pilate failed as a husband.
* Now his name is forever remembered as the man who handed the Savior of the world over to be killed.
* Imagine his reputation today if he would have listened to her?
* We’d be talking about the courageous Roman ruler who defied Caesar, lost his position of influence, and died an honorable man.
* Fellas, our legacy depends on us listening to our wives!