Whether we know it or not, success or failure is often our primary basis for evaluating our self-worth. If success, worthy. If failure, unworthy. And so consciously or unconsciously, we live a life of trying to avoid failure. Which leads us to playing the blame game. Whenever someone fails, we point an accusing finger. When we fail, we search for a reason, a culprit, or a scapegoat. Why? Because we don’t understand God’s unconditional love and grace. We believe the lie that when we fail, we are unworthy of love and deserved to be punished. Whether the accusations are focused on ourselves or others, because we believe that with failure comes condemnation and with condemnation comes due punishment.