“I think the most important thing in relationships is you’re always on the same team.”

Table of Contents (times are approximate):

0:00 Intro

2:55 possessive language

4:15 designer relationships

5:00 labels as a means of avoiding uncomfortable conversations

6:10 what the law says about husbands and wives

8:15 why everybody needs a prenuptial agreement

9:25 how to articulate stuff (for the inarticulate)

11:50 using labels descriptively

16:41 the language around emotions

19:19 raising kids to be good communicators

23:30 (the language of) cheating

30:00 fairness as a concept is overrated

32:30 you’re on the same team

33:50 rules vs. boundaries

Find Wes on X at @wfenza. Listen to him on The Mindkiller Podcast and check out his blog, Living Within Reason. Or if you really want to spice up your life, you can even date him. (I highly recommend it!)