Romans 14-15: Am I My Brother’s Keeper- Life Group Questions
Romans 14:15-18 If your brother or sister is distressed because of what you eat, you are no longer acting in love. Do not by your eating destroy someone for whom Christ died. Therefore do not let what you know is good be spoken of as evil. For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, because anyone who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and receives human approval.
Romans 15: 1-2, 5-7, 14 We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. For even Christ did not please himself... May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. I myself am convinced, my brothers and sisters, that you yourselves are full of goodness, filled with knowledge and competent to instruct one another.
Righteousness in scripture is about right relationship with other people. That’s what the word refers to throughout scripture. How do you think Paul would respond to the notion that “Whatever I do is ok as long as I’m not hurting anyone else?”
When scripture says “you” it usually means it in a plural context. Scriptures goal is to speak more to communities than individuals. That is how all writers of scripture communicated. How do we honor what Romans 14:15 says if we disagree with people who are part of the “you?”
Why does Paul make it a point to say those who do this are pleasing to God AND receive human approval? Why is the human approval part important?
In Romans 15 Paul prays for strength when he says, “May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God.” Paul knows this is hard? Do you have an experience where someone did this for you? Has anyone showed you the love of Christ even when they disagreed with you?
In verse 7 it says God is praised by our acceptance of one another. What do you think is happening when we are rejecting one another? Have you experienced this?
Paul is wrapping up by saying he is convinced that all the people he is speaking to are “full of goodness, filled with knowledge and competent to instruct one another?” What do you think about that? How do you feel when you hear that?