If life isn’t turning out the way you hoped… consider that you are in the way… Something about you… most likely in the invisible… In this article we’ll look at some ways… it is not one way… not as simple as most say it is. There are five trillion pages saying ‘get out of your … Continue reading "Get out of your own way… what? why? how?"

This article is about relating… relationship… …and what can go wrong, what always goes wrong with relationships… And how the same things could go right with just a little thought… Everything the internet says is shallow, surface, and cheap… instead I suggest distinctions. I live in a two-family home. I live upstairs. This apartment used … Continue reading "She killed her daughter and her grandson…"

Are you being lied-to? I get guidance. I ‘obey’ guidance. Guidance is not a full blown sentence, just a nudge. And often it is so that what I am supposed to see is down many days, many weeks, and I need to trust. I am supposed to do what the guidance says I am to … Continue reading "Can you tell when you are lied-to, when someone is fibbing, doctoring the truth?"

This distinction is called perpetration-withhold. I have a new friend who lives walking distance from me. I can see her house and driveway from my office window, or could, but in the summer there is a stretch of dense woods between us, with wildlife… She has a car and I don’t, so she has helped … Continue reading "Here is an example of a distinction not many would recognize…"

As usual, I am going to take the scenic route… I hope you’ll walk it with me, and get the enormous power of responsibility in causing yourself to have a life you can love. Let’s start with looking at the word: Mentality The word mentality is a lot similar to attitude, but while attitude is … Continue reading "How is responsibility the key to power? Real power…"

I read this great article on mentality by the Note taking Nerds. The article is six years old, but it is evergreen… you’ll see. The most important element of this article is this: How you do anything is how you do everything… meaning: Your mentality regarding everything in life is the same as your mentality … Continue reading "Wake Up From your Employee Mentality, wake up from your passenger mentality"

The big question every philosophy, every society, every religion concerns itself with and comes up with a different answer: what is the purpose of life. And depending on what they, what you come up with, your life is going to be happy, productive, or unhappy, full of pain and dissatisfaction. We could safely say that… … Continue reading "What is the meaning of life? What is the purpose of life?"

We all have the same amount of time, 24 hours a day, and yet some people get more stuff done in that time than others. Getting things done makes you a producer… and that is a superpower. People with more accomplishments have a secret. I am going to share this secret with you. I had … Continue reading "Are you managing time, energy or results? Are you getting things done?"

I spent this whole day watching Robert Greene, listening to him, reading him… And now have a question to you: What is the difference between a world view where you look through definitions and a world view where you look through distinctions. The first thing to do is to see what is a definition. Whatever … Continue reading "The parallels and the differences between best selling, Robert Greene, author and me"

If you live like life should be different… Two basic components of my teaching: 1. we live in a pretend world, how the world should be, and 2. we’re pissed that the pretense isn’t real. I watch what articles, what emails get read. And I have noticed that when the title isn’t saying what it … Continue reading "Life should be different? you should be different?"