In this article we’ll look how psychopathy will stop you from soaring by making you, the center of the world fixed, unchangeable. And unless you can change… Don’t be mistaken: Source’s definition of psychopathy doesn’t quite agree with the common view… I listen to Source, not the common view. Long time ago clients are suddenly … Continue reading "Psychopathy will prevent you from soaring…"

My racket, as most rackets, was created by some act of stupidity. The natural stupidity of a 3-year old. I did the 4-day Forum back in 1987… and I learned about racket. Or maybe it was later? In a later incarnation for the Forum? Does it matter? I learned about it when I learned about … Continue reading "Case study: My racket"

I used to have a student who ran a racket… get into situations where he needed to be rescued. He ran the rescue-me racket The original incident was that he was locked into his father’s car on a hot summer day. He had insisted, vehemently, that he wanted to play with the car. He was … Continue reading "The rescue me racket… drama drama drama"

The better you are at recognizing emotions, identifying them accurately, the better you are in life… the less mistakes you make, the more success you can have Recognizing emotions for what they are, accurately, is an art forgotten by humanity. Everybody writes about recognizing other people’s emotions, or recognizing your own emotions… but that is … Continue reading "People Who Are Better At Recognizing Emotions Make More Money, and have a better life"

I rarely do one-on-one sessions. And unless it is about someone’s health, I don’t do them. Why? I don’t think they are effective. For the client, and if I am interested in causing something: it is not effective for me. Most coaching programs are glorified one-on-one coaching, and useless as far as making a difference. … Continue reading "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together"

The secret of big success in most any endeavor is to outwork the competition. But humanity, you, have a problem with that. I watched IP Man, four movies on Netflix, yesterday. Binge-watched. I considered it work. Work? Yeah. Character study, life study, I learn from books and movies… so I can work with you better. … Continue reading "What is your issue with work? Because you have one!"

The Soaring Method to create new reality while soaring. Soaring is an altered mind state… you are not in your mind, you are not in beta brain waves… you are either in alpha or it theta mode. Why does the soaring method work, how it works, what is different from pedestrian methods you have heard … Continue reading "Create new reality with The Soaring Method"

This article is about a youtube guru type, who now teaches classes and consult to eliminate procrastination. I have a special email address I use to sign up to things I don’t really want to be bothered further on. It was the email I made for a client back in the day when I sold … Continue reading "Procrastination… Do his methods work?"

They say if you want to become successful, you need to find a mentor and model after him. Emulate him. I have a very successful teacher who teaches what he does: email marketing. I am on quite a few people’s mailing list who are also his students. I watch what they do. I read their … Continue reading "How do you model after a successful person? Emulate him. Do you do what they say? Do you do what you see?"

Complaining implies expressing dissatisfaction about a situation or behavior. Ranting is all about expressing anger by shouting in frustration. And gossiping is talking about a person who isn’t present. So this article, at least the first part is all three. But it is also a teaching opportunity. Every Tuesday I am on a group coaching … Continue reading "Is ranting gossiping? Is ranting complaining?"