What pulls you out of your equilibrium? What makes you so angry that you can’t control yourself?One of my students has fits of anger. Her life is going from anger to anger, with no chance for a break.Now, I could be condescending, I could be unsympathetic, or helpful and compassionate. But I find it more … Continue reading "What makes you so angry that you can’t control yourself?"

Let’s get some clarity, shall we?On longevity, or life expectancy…There are all kinds of theories and hypotheses about the life expectancy of humans.What do we know?We know that some people, in spite of eating everything, in spite of smoking, drinking, they live a long life.Others, in spite of every effort, they die when they die.Most … Continue reading "So you want to live long… let’s look at that, OK?"

You Can’t Get Enough Of What You Don’t WantWarning: this is a very advanced article. You should probably start with the easier ones if you are here for the first time. OK?An interesting glitch in the nature of reality is that our driving desire, the answer to our dreams, the one thing that would seem … Continue reading "You Can’t Get Enough Of What You Don’t Want"

Most things are only visible in hindsight.Good or bad things equally. Often when you stop…My chiropractor has been unavailable Tuesday mornings for almost a month. By now I am hurting. I spent two hours last night trying to get comfortable before I could fall asleep.I would have never know how much I needed regular adjustments … Continue reading "Most things are only visible in hindsight."

I had a lovely person yesterday on my strategy call. The call was fun with a lot of real laughter, until the topic of spirituality came up. Then it became hellishly painful.The issue is: what is spirituality? How you view spirituality will have a lot (maybe everything!) to do with everything you do in life, … Continue reading "What is spirituality? the spiritual dimension of reality?"

It takes exactly as much energy to live a shitty life, a mundane life, as to live a good life.It’s true, it is different energy, more purposeful, but energy is energy.The only difference is: a shitty life is on automatic. The good life is not.You can have anything, but you can’t have everything.I have been … Continue reading "You can have anything but not everything."

Here is MY own opinion, before I share what Redditors say…It is easier to find a ‘good person’ nowadays than a good company. Companies want to tell their users, their customers what they should want… and as I am saying that, I am not an exception either.My current issue with my blog… that the creators … Continue reading "Let’s see what Redditors say is a good person?"

I had the most potent medicine served to me today in the form of two comments on my site. I got served what I regularly serve… unkindness.I always thought that unkindness is a how… but maybe there is more to it.Maybe unkindness is speaking, unkindness is doing from what you know.And if what you know … Continue reading "A version of confrontation therapy… unkindness"

Back in, I think, 2011 I was friends with some people who swore that this Indian guru was a real healer. That his energies healed animals, trees, and people…So I signed up to a group healing call. It was $50 per call if you subscribed.The call was 177 minutes commercial, and 3 minutes energy transmission.By … Continue reading "Shall I offer group energy healing sessions? Your opinion?"

When we work on distinguishing reality from the voices you add, we actually work on one of the most important aspects of life: your emotions.The quality of your life, how you feel about yourself, about your life, about the people in your life is all emotions.You, mistakenly think, that your emotions are an accurate expression, … Continue reading "The most accurate measure of both unhappiness and disease"