A whole new question is emerging. Why do you do all the things you do to get better, or more, or different? Are you doing it to fix something that you consider wrong? To compensate for it? Or you are doing it to be liked? Well thought of? To belong? To become famous? Or to … Continue reading "Your shadow and your spirit are at the same place"

I wrote this email 12 years ago… It is a great reminder for me, and it is quite apropos for you. Even though you may not be in marketing, you may not have a sales letter… but you have me, and I could be your Big Kahuna… So here is the email: You Suck Some … Continue reading "You Suck. And it sucks. But unless you are willing to…"

Summary: You may be stupid, you may be doing stupid and you may not know it. The biggest breakthrough for a stupid person is to declare that they are stupid. Why? Because it would force them to look before they label, act, talk, argue, say yes, or say no… Stupid is a state, not an … Continue reading "Are You stupid? Or are you just BEING stupid?"

People who make mistakes, people who show weaknesses are easier to love. I know this will hit you as ‘no, it’s impossible! I have to be perfect to be lovable‘, but it’s just not so. Perfection isn’t relatable, achievable or real & it’s downright boring! What makes us so real & unique are our flaws. … Continue reading "Life is counter-intuitive to human nature"

I love reading. My favorite books tear down the proverbial curtain of the Wizard of Oz. And my favorite activities… you could guess, are when I can tear down the curtain… and actually show the naked reality of things… I find delight in it. In my younger years used to be a dreamer, an escape … Continue reading "Like a White Peacock. do things for the love of doing things"

If you wake up because you have to. Or wake up because you need to pee. Or wake up because your pet needs you. Most likely you wake up because you didn’t die the night before. One of the powerful moves you can do to wake yourself up is to cause a breakdown. One of … Continue reading "Where do commitments come from? Who gives them?"

According to google this is a big issue for people… and it is rightly so. Living with the spirit languishing, living with the spirit playing possum is no way to live. And yet, to one degree or another each of us has this issue. I have gotten through this issue… and my spirit is alive … Continue reading "A new approach to free your spirit permanently"

If you are like most of the people that visit my site, you came here in search of the best way to get what you want. Healing yourself, feeling better about yourself and your life. Making money, finding love, or raising your vibration. Or maybe even becoming an Expanding Human Being. And you, like myself, … Continue reading "For men are good in but one way, but bad in many"

Sometimes the worst things can become the best things. At least in this case I hope. George Bernard Shaw said: ‘Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.‘ Now, if you are here, on my site, in my courses to get progress, for yourself, for your life, then … Continue reading "Sometimes the worst thing can become the best thing"

There is no such THING as enlightenment. There is moving to and living on the Tree of Life, raising your vibration. But enlightenment? It is a concept to dupe the gullible billions into striving for enlightenment. Into believing in instant and permanent salvation. Into giving up personal growth and learning… These are ways of thinking, … Continue reading "There is no such thing as enlightenment… is there?"