Supercharge Your Bottom Line TDI: April 24, 2025: Mai Ling Chan, CCC-SLP, PMP, Founder, Exceptional Leaders Network https://drkirkadams.com/sybl-tdi-04-24-2025/ In this episode of Supercharge Your Bottom Line Through Disability Inclusion, Dr. Adams speaks with Mai Ling Chan, MS, CCC-SLP, PMP — a speech-language pathologist turned tech entrepreneur and the founder of the Exceptional Leaders Network. Mai Ling brings a rare blend of clinical expertise, project-management rigor, and entrepreneurial know-how to the conversation. After 18 years of frontline SLP practice, she built and exited a therapy-staffing company, co-created the acclaimed Xceptional Leaders podcast, and now guides disability-focused founders and corporations on inclusive product design, branding, and market strategy through her consultancy, Mai Ling Chan LLC. Her Amazon best-selling Becoming an Exceptional Leader anthology series and the growing Exceptional Leaders Network spotlight innovators who turn lived disability experience into breakthrough solutions. In this episode, Dr. Adams explores: ✅ Mai Ling's journey from hospitality to graduate school at Arizona State University and why she pursued both the CCC-SLP and PMP credentials. ✅ The mission of the Exceptional Leaders Network and how community accelerates disability innovation. ✅ Key lessons from advising corporates and start-ups on accessibility, inclusive UX, and brand positioning. ✅ Opportunities for executives to translate disability inclusion into revenue growth and market differentiation. 🔗 Connect & Learn More Dr. Kirk Adams – Inclusion Strategy: https://drkirkadams.com Mai Ling Chan, LLC – Consulting & Speaking: https://mailingchan.com Exceptional Leaders Network – Community & Resources: https://mailingchan.com/eln Xceptional Leaders Podcast – Inspiring Interviews: https://xceptionalleaders.com If you're ready to supercharge your bottom line through disability inclusion, hit Subscribe, ring the bell 🔔, and share your thoughts in the comments! #DisabilityInclusion #Accessibility #InclusiveBusiness #SpeechLanguagePathology #Leadership #ProjectManagement #ExceptionalLeaders Transcript:
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Music.
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Welcome to podcasts by Dr Kirk Adams, where we bring you powerful conversations with leading voices in disability rights, employment and inclusion. Our guests share their expertise, experiences and strategies to inspire action and create a more inclusive world. If you're passionate about social justice or want to make a difference, you're in the right place. Let's dive in with your host, Dr Kirk Adams.
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So welcome everyone to Dr KURT ADAMS monthly livestream webinar, which I call supercharge your bottom line through Disability Inclusion. Today, I have wonderful guest, Mei Ling Chan. If you could just say hello, Mei Ling, and I'll turn it over to you shortly. Hello everyone. I'm so happy to be here. Thank you for having me great and for those of you who don't know me, again, I'm Dr Kirk Adams. I'm talking to you from my home office in Seattle, Washington. I am the immediate past president and CEO of the American Foundation for the Blind, which was Helen Keller's organization, and I had the awe inspiring opportunity to sit at her desk. I moved to New York City
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in 2016 to be become president of AFB. Prior to that, I held those same leadership roles at the lighthouse for the blind here in Seattle, which is a social enterprise employing hundreds of blind and deaf, blind people, interesting businesses, including aerospace manufacturing for all the Boeing aircraft. I have a PhD in leadership and change from Antioch University, and I focus my dissertation work on employment. I did an ethnographic study of blind adults employed at major American corporations, and interviewed a lot of really cool people working at a lot of companies whose names we all know, and I learned a lot from that experience about the factors that lead to successful employment for people who are blind and the barriers that still remain. So we we all have lots of work to do together to make the world of equitable place where everyone has the equal opportunity to thrive. And I do that by focusing on employment. I work with companies to help them accelerate inclusion of people with disabilities in their workforce. I support disabled entrepreneurs and their entrepreneurial, entrepreneurial journeys. I help
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small nonprofits scale beyond the founder stage. And in general, I
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look for fun, innovative, high impact projects that will accelerate inclusion of people with disabilities in our world. And I like to work with people I like and mailing. Mailing is one of those people we were introduced quite some time ago, and I've stayed in very close contact as she has developed her strategies. And what she's bringing to the world to accelerate inclusion and equity and social justice and all of those good things. So
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would really like to spend the bulk of our time hearing from you mailing I can. I'll reserve the right to pop in and ask some clarifying questions. But would would love to hear about your journey so far, your background. What
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energize you, energizes you and motivates you. Around disability inclusion, maybe some of the things you've tried, some of the things that have worked well, some of the things that you you learn from and where you're at now with ELN exceptional Leaders Network, which I'm privileged and proud to be part of, and then what your your vision of the future is. So I'm happy to hand you the the talking stick, 111, little comment I've learned a lot from Mei Ling. She she comes my as a totally blind person myself since age five, I they tend to look for information about blindness and visual impairment and assistive technologies that support people with visual impairment to help us be in fewer disabling situations through use of technology, but I was on a call with Mei Ling earlier in the week, where her guest speaker was using augmentative communication technology, which I'm I've had some exposure to, but really learning a lot more about because of my association with Mei Ling. So always some.
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Thing new to learn, and that's what we're here for today, for those of you who are with us live, we'll provide ample time for question and answer, and for those of you who are viewing the archived recording, we will let you know how to get in touch with both of us. So Mei Ling, the floor is yours? Excellent. Thank you again. I'm so excited to be able to be on the show with you, and I will tell our listeners that I do have ADHD and I have my talking points in front of me, but if I start to become a runaway guest, which is a podcast guest that just goes on and on, please jump in. Dr Adams, okay, okay, great. I can't imagine me wanting to stop you from saying anything, but I will, I will, I will take that under advice you never know. But I also have learned a lot from Dr Adams, and we are currently working on the software that I am using for the exceptional Leaders Network, which he just joined with me, because there isn't a seamless interface with the jaws re screen reader. And so we're having some issues with accessing different areas, and I don't, I don't use one. And so this has been a really interesting journey for me to be a bridge between a very important user, which is, you know, one of my members and the tech team, and so this has been back and forth with emails. And so I'm really hopeful that this company is going to embrace, you know, the WCAG
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requirements, and I'm looking forward to moving through this process together. And of course, I am name dropping Dr Adams, and that was that he was the former founder and president of the Black blind Association, and you know, hello, we've got somebody very important here, in addition to any other future users who maybe they're already trying to use the software and just not saying anything. So we're getting some good traction. So I just wanted to share that with your listeners. So
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you're muted.
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Well, take take us back to your girlhood in New Jersey. Let's go way back. I love that, yes. So I'm a Jersey girl who's stuck in the desert looking for my beach. That's what I've been saying. It's wild. I've been here 24
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years now in the desert. I originally am from Keyport, New Jersey, a small little sailboat town, which is a beautiful area in Monmouth County. And I did not know how good I had it, because really, you know, 20 minutes and I'm at any beach, it was just crazy. And then I could also drive into New York City. And so I grew up seeing a lot of the the shows, you know, Les Mis I saw probably three or four times. I saw the Christmas ones. I saw the rockets, you know, I've been center, yeah, all of that. And then I came out to Arizona, and I was like, what it was like scratching a record.
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So I've learned a lot, and I've learned to really just treasure, you know, being in New Jersey, young and I would say, you know, going to the beaches and going to the Garden State Art Center, which is an open amphitheater where you could hear the watch the concerts, and you were so close to the to the, you know, the singers and the performers. It's just incredible. So a lot of things have changed. Obviously, I've been out now for 26 years, but my connections and my culture is still very east coast, and people out here will be like, you know, I like you may. You're pretty direct, you're pretty blunt. And I was like, oh, that's the Jersey girl talking.
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Did you become aware of
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people with impairments, disabilities, and dynamics around disability
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as a young person? It's a great question. So I was in I grew up in a very small town, one square mile was the town of keep where it still is, and I had exposure to one cousin, so actually, a friend's cousin who had a lot of believe it was mental disability, and I don't know, because I was so young then, and he was much bigger than me, so I'm a tiny girl. I'm only, like, barely five feet now, and he was a big, big kid, and there was a lot of sound and chaos coming from the other rooms, and I happened to be sitting next to him, he reached out and hit me. Didn't mean to, you know, it's a sensory overload, all that kind of stuff that you don't know about. And so after that, being a young kid, I was always scared, afraid, putting these in quotes of people who had, you know, physical like, if it looked like they had a mental disability, and you could tell. And back then, we used the word retarded, which we don't use now. And that was, you know, in my mind, like, oh, they are violent. And so that was really interesting for me. Wasn't until I went back to school, I went to college, obviously, you know, got education there, and then I got immersed in a lot of self contained classrooms. And so now, obviously, I have a whole different vision.
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And understanding, you know, of all of the sensory inputs and things like that. But that's a great question some people
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so at the college level, were you studying disability related?
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Great question. Oh, nope, I was going for business. I was supposed to get into the school of business, and because I was not focusing on my studies enough, I got a temporary
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admission, and I had to get, like, one more a and so I took a Latin basis class over the summer, and I got a B plus. So I did not, you know, fulfill the requirements. And so I was like, Okay, what am I gonna do now? I supposed to go in and do marketing, and I decided to go into the School of Communications, would look which look like fun, you know, public speaking and broadcasting. So I ended up getting my bachelor's degree there, and then started working for hotels. So I was working for Hyatt hotels for a while, not married, and then had the absolute blessing to stay home with my children and raise them. So I stayed home for 10 years with my two boys. And then my aunt, who is Colombian, she was working in inner city, New York, and she said, Mehmet, you should become a speech teacher. And I said, what is that? And by that point, we did have the internet, so I googled it, and I was like, Oh, this looks great, you know, I love talking, and I could work the kids schedules. And so then I put all my eggs in one basket, and I took some leveling classes out here at ASU, Arizona State University, and I got to know the professors, and somehow I got in. So I was one of 35 students for the master's program out of 300 applications. And I ended up loving both the school age or the school setting and also the medical so I did both tracks, and it was incredible. And so I got to do everything from, I'd say, preschool age, at home, early feeding, all through school age. And then I also kept doing the medical side on the weekends. And so I've also worked with geriatrics, adults trauma like post stroke, acute speech language therapy. What's the right speech language pathology? Yep. Mythology pathology, yeah. So the neurological side, swallowing, and then I loved AAC, which you brought up, which is alternative and on
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augmentative communication, which is AAC. That was incredible. As technology, I love technology, and I got to work with a company in Santa Barbara on brain computer interface, which was absolutely amazing. So we had a little stint there. And then, since then, since 2020 I've been full time consulting, so being a bridge between companies and businesses and helping to connect all the dots, you know, the pieces of clinical versus like product creation, marketing, content, so companies that are on the disability technology space, or what type of companies? Yep, and even it's just, it's a lot of blur, like even private practice or writing a book, and that's kind of where all of this came out. I also started my own podcast. I've been doing that for seven years. It's called the exceptional leaders podcast spotlighting people like yourself who are amazing leaders in this space. And that was an amazing journey for me to just get one person and ask them all the questions I wanted. You know, I'm a very curious person, and so I love that entrepreneurial journey of the ups and downs. And you know what kept you connected to your vision, and where did you get the help? So in after my first year, I realized, as this was back seven years ago, not everybody was listening to podcasts. And I was like, you know, I don't want people to miss these amazing stories. So I decided to do an anthology. I did not know what that word was when I started, I said, I just want to take everyone's stories and put them together in a book. And someone's like, that's an anthology mate. So I started with 15 other authors, and each one told one chapter, and that was beautiful. And so then that started the becoming exceptional leader book series. And then since then, I've now published a focus on AAC leaders, a focus on SLP leaders, and then also a focus on Asian Pacific Islander leaders, with the connection of special education. And each one of these books have had their own audience and their own connection. And I'm just amazed at the value, because everybody loves storytelling. You know, that's really how you can really connect with someone, versus just a bunch of bullets right in a bunch of directions. It's just been globally accepted each of the books, and I'm just so excited. It's been such a blessing.
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So consulting with companies, podcasting, writing books,
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connecting with leaders, and
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what was the genesis of the exceptional leaders network that I know you've just launched. Thank you. So about maybe eight to 10 years ago, I started seeing these subscription memberships, and this is something where you pay, you know, certain amount every month, and then you get access to a group.
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A community, some type of learning system. And this is different than just a like one course webinar, or even if it's like a three day course, this is something where every month, you know, you're tapping into the whoever the content creator is. And when it first started, I thought this is an amazing idea, and I had been creating other companies at that time. I had a learning management system for continuing education. We had had one about reviewing apps, you know. So I really understood the idea of aggregating and bringing communities together. And I just kept watching this idea of subscription memberships. And I saw colleagues starting ones like, for example, the medical SLP group. So it's a bunch of speech therapists who are their expertise is in medical and you pay a certain subscription price a month, and you get access to them, and all of these resources, fantastic. So I just kept thinking about it, but I had imposter syndrome, and I think that's what a lot of us have, because, you know, we come into this. My profession is a speech language pathologist, so I am an expert in certain areas, for example, AAC, right? And I say expert, we're always learning, but I'm just saying, like, that's my area of expertise, right? And then when you talk about subscription memberships, you now have to be creating content, you know, providing information. And I never found the area of speech pathology that I felt that I was in excellence of you know, where people would say, Oh, I, you know, I go to May every month for this in, let's say AC or this area, and that's because I do have ADHD, and so I feel like I have not deep dive into any one area, because they all interest me, which has been a blessing and a curse, right? Call that multi passion, yes, yes. I call it my, my superpower.
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But it can also take me back. It take me, yeah, take me back. So, so I kept having this, like imposter syndrome, like, you know, I'd love to do a membership, but what is it that I would do? You know, I'm not an expert. I'm not an expert. I kept, kind of, like telling myself that. And for your listeners, really, the words that you say to yourself are so important. So if you tell yourself that you are or aren't something, you're going to believe that. And so for years, I believe that I wasn't an expert in anything, and then I was a jack of all trades, master of none. But I finally, finally started to understand that my value is really in connecting people and being a bridge to information. And then I don't need to know everything. And it wasn't until that clicked for me Kirk, that I was able to say, Oh, I've been doing this the whole time, right? I've been bringing people together. I've been sharing information on how to grow your specific accessibility business, or your inclusive business, or become a brand which people are not using like so say you are somebody, who you
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you, I'm thinking the word refer, but that's the word you represent. That's the word you represent, a little known diagnosis, you know, and you're telling the world about it. That's your brand. And so we don't, we don't know how to use these words. And so I've been working with people, one on one, and consulting with them, helping them to understand, like, you need to create a website, you need to get very succinct in your messaging, and, you know, you need to have a mailing list and all of these things. And I started to see this is what I do. You know, this is my value. And so, keeping with the exceptional leaders branding, which is what I've been doing with the podcast, and then also with the book, I created the exceptional Leaders Network, and it this has even been a slow grow because I didn't know what it would be. And so last August, yep, last August, I sent an email out to like, 100 of my closest people who I who I've been dealing with over the years in projects and podcasts and books, and I said, Look, I really think that we need a community where we support each other, we uplift each other, and we support each other's offerings, and we get it. We get each other right. We don't have to explain what is accessible mean. What does inclusive mean? And I said, I don't know what it's going to be, but I'd like to start it. And if you'd like to, you know, be a part of this founders group, let's do this. And so I had 25 people who said, Yes, it was crazy. And we started each month coming together and saying, you know, what kind of topics would be valuable? And I started creating agendas. Another thing that is my superpower power, and it's really because I have ADHD, is I am very organized, and so I have created all of these strategies to make sure that I show up on time, that I get projects done on time. And so being very organized, I was able to kind of see, you know, the pieces of what we were doing and how this could then grow into something much bigger. And so in the last couple of months, now, we have all different presentations or webinars. They're like 45 minutes where they are deep dives into different areas of small business creation and strategy and maintenance, but we also have the time where the people that are on the live calls, they get to share, and that's been so valuable. And you were saying this to Dr Adams that you got to to meet Brooke Brown, who was former Arizona Miss wheelchair on.
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Yeah, yeah. And so you start to see each other, and you hear from each other what our successes are and our challenges are, and sharing tips, and that has just been priceless. I The
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the several experiences I've had so far with ELN exceptional leaders network have been
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it feels like entrepreneurship flavored with disability inclusion. Are those common themes? Is disability accessibility unifying theme? Or how would you describe kind of the framework that you're constructing under right? So I always say it's people with and without disabilities who are working towards accessibility and inclusion. Okay,
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great. So that leads me to the next question of what, what?
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What types of folks do you think would benefit from joining joining the Mary band, yes, exceptional leaders, yeah. So I'm calling them or calling us like brand ambassadors. So now I talk about ADHD as much as I can, right? Because this diagnosis that I feel everybody should be in touch with, I received my di my diagnosis about three years ago now, and honestly, it was very what's weird, like I finally did it, but in the back of my mind, I've, I think I've known I've had it for a while, right? But it didn't look like what a little boy looks like. So I wasn't really sure. And I feel that my messaging is that many women might have this diagnosis, and they don't know, because it just looks different for women, it presents different. And so I feel like me sharing this is really important. So the this is me identifying with a and I'm putting in quotes a disability, but this isn't my it's not the only thing that I do. And so that's why the people that are that I feel that would be navigating towards, you know, our exceptional leaders network are people who are coming out, and they are, you know, seeing the value of having a brand, having a platform, and the real piece is monetizing. And so you could be a speech therapist who has a private practice, or someone who has a disability who just wrote a book or created a product, special education teachers, you know, who have this great idea for a product or a software program, assisted technology developers. I mean, they're people all over the place, but we all come together because we are unified in this very, very special niche area of disability accessibility, inclusion. And so it's been really amazing because people are now collaborating with each other and going, Oh, that. You know, I would love to have Dr Adams on my podcast or so. And so is writing memoirs. And I would love to have her help me, because she gets, you know, my story and how it's different. And, yeah, it's been amazing. I'd like to touch on a couple things. So ADHD, I often talk to people about disability inclusion, and, you know, they're the terms I've been using are visible and non visible disability.
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You know, when I walked into my first job interviews out of college with my long white cane and my Braille slate and stylus, no, it's in Braille, it was pretty obvious that I have
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an impairment, a visual impairment,
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70% or something, of significant disabilities are what, again, I was using the term non visible until about, until about a week ago, when I, when I read a pretty reason
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argument that not non apparent is probably a better term. So would love to get your thoughts on a parent versus non apparent disability a little bit, and any of that, the dynamics that you've observed as a person with a non apparent disability, and then really curious about, what if anything changed for you when you when you had a formal diagnosis, like you said, you kind of you kind of sense there was something neurodiverse about yourself, but you did not have that diagnosis until about three years ago. Obviously, you're an adult, so I'm just really curious about what that felt like, and
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pros, cons,
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dynamics around around that Excellent. Thank you. This has been a very interesting journey for me, because it collided with doing my last book, which was becoming an exceptional API leader, which is Asian, Pacific Islander leader, and I had just completed my it's like an intake questionnaire, and as I was completing it, that's really where I knew that I was going to qualify, because most of Your symptoms will show up before the age of 12, when you're a girl. And so I had to really go back deep into my childhood. I'm now 50. I'll be 53 in May. And so going back and thinking about all of these different the questions that they asked, and some of them were like, oh, so, for example, I always had bruises up and down my legs. Kirk, because.
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I was bumping into things. I was constantly just, I didn't know where my legs were, and then my arms were like octopus arms. And my family actually joked that when I came to a table and there were glasses out on the table, that they would all grab their glass and hold it, because inevitably, I was going to knock something over. Okay, that was really interesting, right? So I think about, like, these type of things, and then also I wouldn't stop talking. And my dad, literally, my dad is 100% Chinese, would be like, shut up. Would you stop talking? You know? And then I would just shrink and just be like, you know? And he was like, you haven't stopped saying something since you were born. You know, there's all these things that, like, the picture starts coming together for me, and that was wild. So as I'm answering these questions, I'm like, Oh my gosh, that's me, you know. Like, did you have trouble getting stuff done in school? I got to see every single semester in grade school, up until seventh grade, it was like, I'll just pick spelling, English, history, science, you know, each one because I just couldn't get it together. Couldn't get my projects done, you know, I wasn't organized. And back then, I don't know if you guys remember, like, Oh, that was like, latch key kids days, like, my parents didn't help me with my homework. They didn't get me, you know, it's not the helicopter parenting that we had now, so literally, I had to take care of everything myself. Well, my parents asked, Did you do your homework?
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Yes,
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yes. There's different kind of parenting. You know, my death was a mess. My room was a mess, like, it's just a mess. And so going through it, like, by the time I got done, I submitted the questionnaire, and I just sat there crying. I was like, Oh my gosh, I had ADHD all that time, and nobody helped me, and nobody saw it. And then the flip side of that is, as I'm going through and writing the book together with Dr Lily Chang, who is the founder of the Asian Pacific Islander caucus for the American Speech Language Hearing Association. She taught me, and I think I always knew this, but she taught me about face. And this is a concept Mansa, that in most of the Asian cultures, and even Southeast Asian cultures that that on the outside, you don't want public people to know what is going on for your family, because it is embarrassing, because you know you there's a certain level that you want to keep up in terms of reputation. And so this, it just permeates so many things, and it is so true. And so this is where perfectionism comes in and secrecy. And if you notice, like very the Asians DON'T LIKE SHARE, you know, their their family gossip, you know, things like that. I don't know if everybody knows, but this is actually, like an unsaid thing. And so disability is actually a something that runs through this where you don't want anyone to know that your child has a disability. I mean, you want them to think that your child's perfect, and so any disabilities will absolutely be, you know, hit under the table, and we're not going to talk about that. And so when I was learning about that, and then being able to look at my relationship with my dad, who's 100% Chinese from Hong Kong, now I realize that he was trying to discipline ADHD out of me. I'm just gonna let that hang there, like by yelling at me, you know, reprimanding me, taking things away, you know, giving me negative feedback. It's not gonna work. Obviously, we all know it's not gonna work. So that was amazing for me to be able to connect all that together. I have a good relationship with my dad. I love him. The death cutest little guy, and I've been able to see past you know that this is what he thought was best parenting techniques, but it was so damaging for me, Kirk, because I always feel like I'm not good enough. I'm not doing all this work. I should be doing better. What is wrong with me? That was the other thing my dad loved to ask rhetorical, rhetorical questions, what are you doing?
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I'm like, a million things I don't know.
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So that was really huge for me. And then writing the book and working with all of the different people in the API community. Now I understand that me telling this story is so important because other people go, Oh my gosh, that's my story too. You know, whether it's just connecting with hiding a disability in the family, or the family not accepting a neurological, you know, a neuro diverse, let's say ADHD, ADD autism, all of those. You know, it's very hard for some families because of this Asian influence and the intersection of this culture. So that's really interesting, yeah. Well, obviously you
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figured out alternative techniques for yourself at this undiagnosed, neurodiverse set of characteristics. But you obviously are very, successful, one of 35 people out of 300 to get into your master's program and becoming a speech language pathologist, podcasting and writing books and things. From a I guess, probably from a psychosocial standpoint, super helpful to have a diagnosis. But then from a practical standpoint, are there two?
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Tools or techniques that you've
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come to embrace since the diagnosis that have been helpful to you. Yes, so I set up to eighth grade. I got a C but then there was a high school that I wanted to go to, and it was a private high school, and I had gone to private school too, but I wanted this high school, and my parents said you have to get straight A's if you're going to go to this high school. We know you can do it. We don't know what your problem is, but in order to stay in this high school, you have to get straight A's. And so, again, no one told me how. So I had to develop my own strategies, and that's really the word. And so I had my Trapper Keeper, my calendar, my my note cards. You know, I had to come up with all of these ways to keep myself organized. And that stayed with me almost to a fault, because I'm OCD on a lot of things now, where it's like, Oh, my God, this has to be like this, where I got to be packed like, three days in advance, and I gotta get all my vitamins together a month in advance. You know, it's, it's a little too much.
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So that's like, the the old school way. And then now with technology, which was what your question was, I am on fire because I've got, like, my phone is beeping, My watch is vibrating, you know, like, you name it. I got things going on to keep me going, and I still will miss a meeting, believe it
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or not, happens to the best. Yes, yes, and then AI, oh my gosh. AI is like, it's like, I can't even, I can't even explain, like I can maybe 5x what my productivity is on a daily basis. Now with AI, what are some of the common things you use AI for? So research is really important. So I do a lot of presentations now, and I'm kind of doing meta presentations, because it's aI presentations, right? How to use it as a speech language pathologist, how to use it as a small owner. And I actually do a lot of this research using all of the AI tools. I also am loving agentic AI, which is that you can have, there's a software program, there's a couple now, where you have four or five different agents, and they different things. So one does content writing, one does email writing, one does personal development, and they all connect with each other, so you don't have to have, like, one space for one topic. So that's just really powerful. I love those two things. And then chat GPT is changing all the time. Here we are in 2025
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and we're, you know, just at the surface of what it can do. It's constantly updating
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and back to the parent versus non apparent disabilities,
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thinking about speech, and obviously Brooke on Monday, when she was making her presentation using
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AAC
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augmented and alternative. Yes, okay, communications. So it was pretty, pretty clear to me before I knew she was Miss wheelchair Arizona,
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you know, hearing, hearing during the way she presented I was as a blind person, it was apparent to me that she has an impairment. And I want to take just a minute and talk about impairment and disability. So
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I have a visual impairment, I'm totally blind. Some people have hearing impairments, mobility impairments, cognitive impairments, but impairment does not equal disability. I really like to talk about that a lot, especially with employers. And I'm, you know, I use two simple examples. One is, if I'm
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leading a meeting and I am at the conference table and I have my agenda in Braille and my committee reports and my budget and Braille, I can read Braille as well as a sighted person could read print. So I'm not I'm not in a disabling situation. Then, even though my visual impairment is constant, however, if I sit down at a conference table and you hand me a stack of print materials, my visual impairment
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does not fit with that built environment of print, so I am in a disabling situation. So we talk, I talk a lot about trying to minimize the disabling situations for people with impairments, and to have social, digital and built environments that lessen the instances of disabling situations. So I talk, talk about that. And then often, if I'm on a break big crowd, I'll say, and this may you would, you would clap, I'll say, if you're, if you're five feet tall or shorter, clap, and someone will clap. And I'll say, Well, if you walk into a room and there's a package on a shelf that's eight feet off the ground, your characteristic of your height does not fit with the built environment or that high shelf. So you're going to have to be creative. You're going to have to get a tool like a step stool, or you're going to have to find a teammate taller than you and create a team.
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Uh in order, and then you may want to build a lower shelf so the situation doesn't happen again. So those are super some super simplistic examples. But
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as far as the fit between people with impairments and speech and the fit with our our world. I'd love to just hear some of your top of mind reflections about that. Since that's an area of expertise for you, it's not it's not for me, but I'm really obviously interested in anyone with characteristics that fall outside the norm, and how we can be inclusive of everybody, everybody, everybody. I say,
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you're going to love this. So I had the honor of being able to nominate some people for our recent Arizona State Speech and Hearing Association Annual Conference, and it just happened in April, and I nominated John Gomez, who's a good friend of mine, but also the producer of when I stutter, and it's now an internationally recognized documentary on adults who stutter. And he published this, I think, back in 2018 and it was after like, four or five years of interviewing and filming adults all around the country. And he is one of the pioneers of shifting speech language pathology to whole person centered, versus fixing someone who stutters, and this is a non apparent impairment. So that actually fits perfectly into, you know, what you're talking about. And in the film, it's it's fantastic, because people talk about trying all different types of therapies, like even the one that is like that camera was called the MVR thing or something like, It echoes back to them what they say. And that actually works for a little while, but then the brain just reconfigures and goes back to its initial states. It's amazing. And then also, like, where all these strategies the speech therapist teaches the the client to stop talking, start again. You know, use onboarding strategies. And they were just saying, like, how limiting it was and how it affected their self confidence and so many things. It was actually negative for some people, you know, and it made the in the profession to have to take a look at, is it our is our place that we want to fix people so that they don't have this impairment anymore? Or are we just trying to get people to the point where they are happy and they are communicating. And that's always been, what I fall back on in the field, is it doesn't matter what form of communication you're using, it's that you are effectively communicating. And you know you're communicating with another person, with your pet. You know it could be with just somebody that can or something that can accept it. But there is, there's also a lot of controversy that if you have an AAC device, you have to use the device, you have to press the symbol, versus just using your hands. Why can't you just press your by, you know, or vocalize, uh, and that's all you can get. But that means by, or that's closest to it. We also find that there's people who and then this is Brooke. She cannot, um, enunciate all of the sounds, and so she has helpers, and that her helper was not available for our session the other day, but they can interpret her vocalizations. And it's amazing. And so that person has become her assistive technology, right? Yes, yes, yes.
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Um,
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yes, you said the documentarian. Did you say John Gomez,
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so, and whole whole person? What was the whole person centered? Yeah, whole person centered. Could you just talk a little bit more about that? What that means the whole person? So, an example is when I had a child, he was in fifth grade, and he kept coming in. He he had a stutter. He come and he'd say, Miss Chan, I don't want to leave my class. I'm working on a science project, or, you know, we're just doing something and and I'd say, okay, but you know, let's just go through this. And as he's telling me, he's experiencing moments of stuttering, and he's like, I don't need, I don't need the speech therapy. And so I went in and observed him, which is part of our responsibility, is to observe him with his peers, you know, in the classroom. And I said, this kid's doing great, you know, he's not really impacted, and he was getting good grades. And so those are the two markers that we can attach our speech therapy to in the school setting. Is that, you know, maybe socialization is impeding his ability to to participate in group activities, and then that affects him academically. So it always has to affect academics. So this was years ago, before we had the school person centered, and I had his family come in, and he's only in fifth grade. And every year you have an IEP, the individual education process meeting, and I had to help him come to it. And I said, you know, Johnny, how do you feel about speech therapy? He's like, it's a waste of my time, you know, I don't want to be there. Yeah. And I said, Okay, well, how do you feel about your grades? He's like, I don't know. I think I'm doing great. You know, I don't have any problems. We asked the teacher. Teacher says he's doing great. Does he have any issues with, you know, interacting with peers? Any self confidence issues? None.
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And he wants to stop speech therapy. The parents do not want him to stop speech therapy. And so this was something that took me at least two years to get him off of my caseload, and I had reduced him down to just one hour a month, reduced consultation to the point where I could get him off of a full IEP and he can be out with the general kids, and so that's what Whole Person Centered is, is that is this person communicating, or, you know, being able to live at the level where they feel that they Right, right? Are they thriving exactly by their own deficit, their own definition of what thriving is, right? Yes. So let's talk about the IEP just for a second. If there's a parent, the child with a disability, a child with an impairment, listening to this, the individual education plan or education process, individual education process document is super, super important,
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your child is entitled to that.
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For blind kids, there's something called the expanded core curriculum, which the American Foundation for the Blind and Dr Phil Hatton developed many years ago. And it's the it's the good news as blind kids get at some point and say, Hey, blind kid, you got to learn everything the sighted kids learn, and nine more things, which is orientation of mobility, how to travel confidently and safely with the with the long white cane Braille, if that's appropriate,
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assistive technology and advocacy, you need to Learn how to advocate for yourself, and I did not. I was not really taught that very well. I have some terrible stories about how not being able to advocate for myself that negatively impacted my life, but
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having your child in those IEP meetings
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from kindergarten on is really important. They can give feedback and input into the process as developmentally appropriate. They can say what they like and don't like when they're really little, and as they get older, they can really start being a leader in those settings.
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I can remember being at a National Federation of the Blind of Washington meeting, talking about IEPs, and one of the moms said, you know, if I walked in there and there were six people and me, there were six experts, and they were telling me what was best for my kid. And I said, I'm not prepared. I didn't realize what this is going to be. I need to reschedule. And she said, I came back with seven people.
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No, it still chokes me up, because she said, you know, we have to have it IEP meeting in the gym. That's where we're going to have it, just so I can have enough support to
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achieve for my child. What what I need to achieve for my child? So the IEP is super important. Sounds like you've been involved in quite a number of those mailing so I just want to put that out there.
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And I know that either one of us would be happy, delighted to talk to anyone who's with us live today or
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viewing the recording about any or all of this. So let's, let's tell people how they can get in touch with us. And then I love mailing to hear a little about about your vision for the future of the exceptional leaders network.
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So how can people best get in touch with you? Well, it's kind of amazing. My name, mailing Chan is pretty
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popular in China,
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but I was able to actually land mailing chan.com which is why, so please feel free to reach out to me at MLC, at mailing chan.com you can also find me on LinkedIn at mailing Chan and Instagram at mailing Chan, great, and for me, my name is not quite as Common, but I was able to get Dr Kirk adams.com so dr Kirk adams.com
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or Kirk Adams PhD on LinkedIn, and
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I spend my day
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trying to move
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inclusion of people with disabilities forward in all kinds of ways, small, small and large, serious and fun. So if it's something that you're interested in talking about with either one of us I know mailing I'm gonna I'm gonna speak for you. We would welcome a conversation
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with anyone out there who wants to
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help move things forward. Good of the order.
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But before we, before we open it up for any questions from the people with us here today, I'd love to, love to hear a few minutes about your vision for Eln. I know, I know it started. I joined it. I've been to a couple meetings, been to, had a couple great experiences with.
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Your guest speakers. And as you mentioned earlier, you and I are working through the accessibility issues with the membership platform that you're using, and we've got the vendor involved now, which is what you need to do. And so we're, we're doing, we're doing those things that
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in the ELN world will make things more accessible for everybody. So what, where do you want to see things go?
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Well, you know, we have to talk about the space that we're in right now and how it's being affected by the change in the federal programs. You know, the obliteration of di programs and the trickle down, reduction in funding for services. So many people like us are disability advocates, speech therapists and just people in this community, we're starting to look for independent paths to creating impact. You know, what are some other ways that we can do this and connect with people and also generate sustainable income? And that's a piece that I haven't been talking about for years. It's that we need to make money, and with that money, we can help more people, we can be more impactful. And so that's where I see the ELN network really coming together. Is I think we're small but mighty right now, but we are going anywhere, and we're just going to continue to grow as people like you, our listeners, are listening and finding out that there is support here from people who get what you are working on. And that's really hard, because I think in this time again, I talk about inclusivity, accessibility, this is becoming non negotiable. You know, for businesses, they can take away the DI programs, but the the requirements are always going to be there, and we need to continue to self advocate. And if you know, we know together, we are stronger. That's where I see the exceptional Leaders Network going growing is growing together. I like to say this is we need to look to our left and right and to lift each other up. And I feel that that is where the exceptional leaders network is placed,
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wonderful. And I that that does lead me to reiterate, the laws are still the laws. The Americans with Disability Act is still the law section, 504508,
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EEOC, there's
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opportunity,
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there's still the Civil Rights Act, there's still the laws. And
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I just say keep, keep the faith. And like you just said, mailing be be, be innovative, and gather together in community, and let's look for creative solutions as groups of people who care.
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Anyone with us today who would like to ask a question? I don't like chat because I just hear Jaws read it. So if you if you just want to unmute
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and ask a question. Feel free.
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I'm sorry. I thought I was unmuted already. There we go. Oh, right. So Kirk, Mei Ling, it's always a pleasure to be with you. Amazing Stories. Mei Ling, I really appreciated some of the
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insights on how you were raised, and it really struck home to me. So thank you for sharing that.
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One of the questions that I I would really love to get both of you to weigh in on,
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there is a
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there because of what's happening right now and some of the
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things that we're seeing happening at the federal level. One of the things that I've been hearing from some of my colleagues who have disabilities, whether that's blind or autism or other things, is I don't feel comfortable advocating for myself right now,
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or I get shut down when I'm asking for help. And there's this intimidation piece that seems to be happening
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that I have to own for you I don't really understand, because when someone tries to intimidate me to shut up, that usually makes me talk louder, right? And I'm comfortable with that, but not everybody is like me, and so I'm really curious if you have
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any strategies either that those people might be able to tap into who aren't feeling comfortable and advocating for themselves right now, or, quite honestly, if you got any advice for me who's trying to support them and and on that journey, right and trying to be both understanding and at The same time, push for you got to advocate. You can't let them shut you down. And so I hope that that's, yeah, well, my, my, my top of mind answer is, there's, there's,
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there's a tolerance for being spiritedness. You.
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And
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this courteousness that's happening in our society right now, and I think that's not a not a big surprise. I think certain, certain people who,
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for whatever reason, feel aggrieved, are feeling pretty emboldened to
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speak, speak cruelly to other people.
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And I think it's just important to acknowledge that that people have been permission, have been given permission to be pretty rude.
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I think we've always had to choose our battles, our advocacy battles. And there's a such a thing as compassion fatigue. You can't, you can't try to take every micro aggression as a teachable moment. You know, when I'm in the TSA line with my wife and
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they say,
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can, can I see his ID?
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You know, do I choose to just hand them my ID, or am I going to take a moment to
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educate them that they should speak to me directly? So sometimes I sometimes I say, can speak to me directly? Sometimes I just hand the ID. Super, small example,
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I think the answer, my default answer, to all of this stuff, is community.
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You know, it's tough to do all this stuff alone, and don't, don't put yourself through it. You can, you can join a formal structure group, like exceptional Leaders Network, or you can find kindred spirits, and it's so much easier to find kindred spirits now, I grew up in teeny towns in the Pacific Northwest. I was the only blind kid in my schools. Never met a blind adult until well into my 20s,
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who was a successful, thriving person
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then wasn't taught advocacy skills, but with with the search tools we have today, the groups,
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the American Council the blind has chapters. National Federation of the Blind has chapters.
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There are recreational groups around people with various impairments.
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Use a search engine and put in some terms and find, find, find some, some folks. I know there's the common find, find your tribe is a little bit of a buzz phrase nowadays, but don't, don't go it alone. Find someone that you can talk to about it, who has some shared experience, that you have some commonality with and those are my top of mind thoughts.
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Eileen,
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yeah, I have a really interesting experience. I had the opportunity to present about accessibility to small business owners. And
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at the end of it, one of the participants said, you know, I don't understand why we have to make screen readers available for everyone. If I have an employee and they need something, why don't they just tell me? Why do I have to spend all this money to make it available for all the employees, and maybe there's only 1% that need it. And I was like, I just stood here talking to you for an hour about how important it was, and you have the audacity and ignorance to stand up and say that I was shocked. So I just want to give you that perspective is people just don't get it. So what I do tell people in this is to answer your your question, Jeremy, is to say this, these are the needs that I have, and this is what I need. And so specifically saying I need a Jaws, or whatever the screen reader is that you like, this is what I need. You know, I am vertically challenged, and I need to have, like I do. I have a child's chair, a child sized chair, so that I can fit, you know, anatomically at my desk. I need this, like, making that list of things and sharing those. Now, I don't know if you want to share that in the interview. You know, giving them these are all the things that I'm going to need. But I have no problem with saying and this is from the other side, so I am still like on that employee side, but as a consultant, I do offer. I have ADHD, and I'm using all of these tools and strategies, but if I don't show up for a meeting, feel free to ping me, you know, just letting them know I'm okay with that. You know, Text me, email me, whatever that is. If I'm late for something, don't think that you know that I remembered or something. And most of the time they don't have to do that. Just want you guys to know, because that's the other thing, is, you don't know. Do you want to be telling people these, you know, these issues that you might be having, and then they don't want to work with you? But if you know yourself, and you know you are true to your word. Of course, you're going to try to show up, you know, the best that you can. And so I don't think there's an issue with sharing earlier. You know, in these conversations with employers, what your needs are, and you know how you are working through them and what you need to be able to produce, you know, at your best level. Yeah. But.
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As far as that of disclosing your disability and the employment journey,
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I've
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tried both strategies, not revealing until the last minute when I walk into the in person interview, which didn't go well for me, or disclosing up front again my cover letter, and that even went worse. But I think now that I'm old, older and wiser, the person may not legally be able to ask you about your disability, but if you have one, it's a great strategy to talk about it and talk about how it's a strength, how you've developed strengths, how you have unique capabilities and unique experiences because of it, and how it will not, hello, will not create problems for the employer. It's going to bring valuable assets to the table for the employer. And you might say, Hey, I got my masters and such and such, and I use this, this and this, and that's the exact same tools I'll use to do this job. And
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you know, the vocational rehabilitation system will pay for it, or mailings may say you, you notice I'm a short person, all I need is this a chair. It's not going to cost any small chair doesn't cost any more than a big chair. All I need is this chair. So you might, you might think about acknowledging it and putting it terms of strengths as counseling or meeting with some high supply and high school kids last summer, and there was a really sharp young cat. He was applying for jobs.
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18 years old. Lived in a small town in eastern Washington.
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I went to college in a small town in eastern Washington. So I said, you know, there's gonna be 100 kids applying for this job, and they're gonna all have the exact same thing on that resume, but, but,
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but I will guarantee you that you have something unique that they don't have. So I don't know what it is. Maybe you babysat your younger siblings. Maybe you worked the chores on the farm. Maybe you did a really cool science project as a blind person, but illustrate, illustrate your differences. Stand out. Be proud.
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With that mailing, I am going to have to bid you adieu until next time it's been this hour flew by,
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and I greatly appreciate you being here today.
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Thank you. This was way too much fun, and I don't
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want to we'll do another hour. Let's do another hour in the fall. See, see how far you've gotten. Exceptional leaders, network, beautiful and everybody join. It's fun.
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See you next month, the final Thursday in May, at the same time love in Pacific, or my monthly livestream webinar, supercharge your bottom line through Disability Inclusion. Have a great day, everybody. Thank you. Thank you.
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