Poetry of Intimacy Lounge

Lillian Frances is a rock climber, Lover Girl and Pop Star based out of LA. She believes strongly that communication is the key to better pleasure, and wants to empower people to understand what they want, ask for it and get it. 

Lillian Frances joins Honeybee in a sex-positive, relationship-centered conversation about her book Finger Banging for Climber Boys, which grew out of a funny climber-gym joke and turned into a practical guide to pleasure, anatomy, and communication. Staying playful this discussion touches on consent, body literacy, and how better communication leads to better intimacy. The episode also covers vulva and clitoris anatomy, squirting versus female ejaculate, and simple frameworks for asking for what you want without killing the mood. Lillian closes with an original song that turns a bad romantic experience into a boundary anthem.

Get ready for a juicy raw and real conversation about the MESS & MAGIC of LOVE!!

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Timestamps

01:36 - Lillian Frances and her new book

11:16 - The clitoris is an entire pleasure structure

13:59 - What gave Lillian the courage to finish the book

25:09 - Pleasure as life force and a birthright

33:03 - Reframing feedback as a gift, not a rejection

39:10 - Why finger banging can be a safer alternative to penetration

42:02 - Slow touch, buildup & erogenous zones

45:42 - A 32 hour kiss and the pain of being ghosted

50:36 - The first Burning Man workshop that inspired the book

54:07 - Lillian’s late bloomer honesty and awkward early experiences

57:57 - Why assumptions about consent cause so many problems

60:20 - The meaning behind Lillian’s Norwegian Wood tattoo

63:54 - “Am I protecting him or am I protecting me?”

68:28 - The arm yank and O spot stimulation

71:25 - Hygiene, nails, and avoiding painful friction

73:40 - Female ejaculate versus squirting

81:07 - Most women may be able to squirt with the right technique

83:34 - Dads, sons and curious frat bros reading the book

87:15 - Post game recap, talking after sex to improve the next time

97:04 - Lillian performs “Someone Else’s Problem”

Honeybee Rose interviews Jahnavi Delgado. This was a long awaited conversation around mind-body healing, sacred sexuality, and how unresolved trauma can show up physically. What follows is an intimate, vulnerable discussion about sobriety, shame, dating and the ways the body can hold what the mind tries to avoid. Jahnavi shares her personal story, including family trauma, Hurricane Katrina, abuse, alcoholism, miscarriage, autoimmune illness, thyroid cancer and a major somatic release experience. 

Together, they explore how healing, boundaries and honesty can change the way we relate to love, sex, and ourselves on our journey to healing. 

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Timestamps 🕐

00:00 - Why this episode was hard to release and why the visuals were imperfect

04:38 -Jahnavi Delgado is introduced and her move to the Central Coast

10:55 - Family trauma, Hurricane Katrina, and the first layers of relationship pain

12:49 - Thyroid cancer, autoimmune flare-ups, and suppressed memories resurfacing

14:39 - Alcohol, casual sex, shame & the cycle of misaligned relationships

19:12 - Celibacy, dating while sober & realizing touch felt unsafe

25:11 - Sacred sexuality, the portal & why sex is deeply consequential

28:34 - Alcohol as a trigger for anger, blackout behavior & relational damage

31:13 - How shame and unprocessed emotion become physical illness

35:17 - Plant medicine, intentional altered states & beginning true healing work

37:13 - Kundalini awakening, somatic discharge, and energy moving through the body

55:52 - Honeybee shares her own relationship, wound & womb-centered body signals

63:35 - Slowing down, checking in

69:12 - Grieving pregnancy loss, honoring men’s grief, and the complexity of co-creation

74:30 - Closing reflections on purpose, wound, healing, and alchemy

Key frameworks

• The body keeps score
• Emotions are energy in motion
• Sacred sexuality as a portal for creation
• Somatic discharge as a release of stored trauma
• Mind-body connection across nervous system, fascia, and organ systems
• Healing as alignment with purpose rather than performance

What does it really mean to love deeply, heal fully, and connect divinely? Sven Chanton & Anna Honeybee Rose sit down for a raw conversation exploring love, intimacy, masculinity & sexuality.

They dive into healing relationships, the truth about porn, semen retention, tantric practices & the electromagnetic nature of our bodies and what it all means for cultivating a real DIVINE UNION.

This isn't just a podcast episode. It's an invitation to remember the sacredness of sex and the transformative power of love.

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome to the Poetry of Intimacy Lounge

06:51 Prayer & Intention

14:54 Healing Through Breath-work & Vulnerability

22:41 The Journey from Boyhood to Manhood

30:07 Rage, Passion & the Depth of Love

33:53 The Impact of Casual Sex & Pornography

47:34 Semen Retention & Sexual Energy

56:13 Connecting to the Divine Through Sexuality

01:14:49 The Role of Men in Women's Liberation

01:21:42 Poem Closing Ceremony

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Turning Trauma into Healing: A Deep Dive into Self-Love and Safe Intimacy

This heartfelt episode explores the journey from trauma to self-acceptance, emphasizing the importance of safe love, boundary-setting, and embodied healing. Honeybee shares her personal story of overcoming childhood trauma, building resilience, and cultivating authentic connections through spiritual and somatic practices.

01:05 - Creating a space for inclusivity and honoring diverse expressions of love

02:01 - Honey B's intention for the episode and prayer for divine guidance

04:31 - Trauma live in the body: understanding somatic memory

07:18 - Honeybee’s journey of grounding and self-empowerment

14:06 - Childhood experiences of pain and impact on sense of safety

15:02 - Shadows of emotional abuse and manifestations of unresolved trauma

19:40 - Body image issues and shame conditioning linked to trauma

33:30 - An introduction to tantra and its role in healing and connection

40:10 - Soulful exploration through sensuality and self-reverence

41:35 - Honeybee Love Alchemy guided self-love practices and coaching opportunities

43:02 - Breath-work, grounding and resources for healing

44:41 - Crisis support resources and the importance of community care

45:11 - Guided box breathing for calming the nervous system

50:16 - Closing poem "She Stayed": Celebrating resilience and blossoming despite hardships

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• The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
• Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg
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Join me in the Poetry of Intimacy Lounge. Let’s pour the tea, light the candles and laugh at the mess and the magic of LOVE. ❤️

This is a poetic playground for intimacy, where communication becomes art and relationships are treated like living rituals.

You are not alone my love, healing your heart doesn’t have to feel like a chaotic roller coaster.

With grace and curiosity, we explore topics of;

-Eros + Love

-Soulful storytelling

-Authentic conversations

All with the flavor of becoming safer lovers, rooted in our truth, guided by God’s blessings along the way.

In the very first episode of Poetry of Intimacy Lounge, I introduce you to Honeybee, she is a voice, a presence and a symbol of my healing journey.

After experiencing heartbreak, I began searching for deeper truth about love, vulnerability and intimacy.

Becoming Honeybee became a way for me to process pain, rediscover tenderness and speak the raw truths many of us carry but rarely say out loud.

This episode is an introduction to the heart behind the podcast. I share who Honeybee is, why she matters to my story and how the Poetry of Intimacy Lounge with Honeybee is a sanctuary for those who seek support in Love + Eros.

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Your Love & Intimacy Guide

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