Expanded Lovemaking

8-point Enlightened Guide to Sexual Healing (Part One) with David Cates

07.06.2023 - By Dr. Patti TaylorPlay

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In the show, Dr. Patti talks to David Cates, a Tantra “teacher of teachers”, and a professional who works with sexual healers.

How many people have you known who have had some sexual issues, and whom you wanted to help? Or are you wishing someone would help you through some passages? Today we get to talk to someone whose passion in life, and lifelong specialty, is to teach sexual healers how give just this type of expert assistance. First you'll get an exercise that David recommends couples can practice to enhance connection and bonding. Then, you will learn about David's eight point guide to sexual healing, using as an example of what happens when a couple is on a date, and the man inadvertently touches the woman's G-spot and old stories and memories are unexpectedly unleashed. Learn how you can respond, lovingly, to minimize further trauma, and create safety, love, compassion, and even continuance of intimacy. As David says, he's only met two women out of the thousands he's ever met, who haven't had some old stories come up to be processed during intimate encounters. Find out how to remain present as the giver or healer during all this activity.

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