You ever notice how everyone is screaming about “threats to democracy”. While the screens strobe and the pundits froth like rabid weasels, the average American family is quietly deflating the simple joy in their lives. A fleeting joy of personal experiences that is worth more than all the gold supposedly in Fort Knox. And not from bullets, not from divorce, not from hunger. American families are being permanently separated by opinions.

Your sister thinks the other side of the family are literal MAGA fascists. Your brother thinks your sister is a treasonous commie who should be deported to whatever imaginary gulag she came from.

The American dream of individual freedoms protected by the laws of a Republic is now a shadow of its former self reeling in a mad avalanche of accelerating mob rule.

We weren’t invaded by Cossacks. Not by the Spanish Inquisition, Not even by that one crazy aunt who puts raisins in the potato salad. No! By politics! Sweet suffering sassafras, propagandized polarizing politics!

We were however, invaded by the Marxist Frankfurt school and its merry band of Salinskyite Weather Underground party crashers. But that is an entirely different substack.

Picture it….Grandma Rose, 82 years young, basting the turkey, humming “White Christmas,” when suddenly…..BAM!…….nephew Ethan drops the bomb.

“Grandma… did you vote for the orange man or the word salad vegetable?”

The room freezes. The gravy stops bubbling. The cranberry sauce quivers like it’s about to testify before Congress.

Aunt Miriam (the one with the bumper sticker that says “I’m With Her… 2016”) gasps, clutches her pearls, and shrieks….

“FASCIST!!”

Uncle Mort (who still has a Bernie ’16 yard sign in the garage) leaps to his feet

“TRAITOR!!”

The dog, sensing the end is near, hides under the couch with a copy of the Constitution. It’s a standoff.

We’re not talking about cousin Marvin who borrowed $300 and never paid it back. We’re talking about Mom won’t speak to Dad anymore because he liked a post on X about gas prices. The dinner table has become a DMZ. The holiday card list? Decimated. The group chat? A ghost town with tumbleweeds made of passive aggressive emojis.

And who’s behind this masterpiece of mayhem?

The same geniuses who brought you 24 hour outrage, clickbait headlines, and algorithmic rage farming. They sit in their leather chairs, sipping $18 oat milk lattes, paid millions for reading from a teleprompter as the cortisol numbers climb.

Half the adults in this country…half….are now estranged from at least one close relative. That insane number according to a November 2024 Harris Poll conducted shortly after the U.S. presidential election found that about half of American adults are estranged from at least one close relation, which the poll defines as a family member or friend. Fifty percent! And that was over a year ago. That’s not a statistic, it’s a rolling dumpster fire.

We used to argue about who ate the last slice of pie. Now we argue about whether the gluten free pie is woke or anti-woke. And the pie’s just sitting there like “I’m f****n’ blueberry, you a******s….eat me.”

They’ve turned blood relatives into enemy combatants and the living room into a WWF Ring. And the beautiful part? The people who engineered this whole s**t show are laughing all the way to the bank while we’re busy unfriending our own mothers on Thanksgiving.

Beautiful. Just beautiful. We finally found something more destructive than war, plague, or locusts……..we found the emotional mine field of Politics.

The gift that keeps on giving… until nobody’s left to open it. And where is the release valve. That thing we used to call American culture? When the world was running down and an organic culture made the best of what was still around?

Quietly minimized. Degraded, repurposed and fragmented. Have you noticed how everyone can now name a polarizing politician at the drop of a hat but can’t name a current musician worth a damn? It used to be the other way around. Why is that?

The Reddit threads are full of grief stricken estrangement fallout. Americans on opposite sides unable to communicate on opinions over complicated polarizing topics like ICE raids and Don Lemon’s war on white American Christians. His words not mine.

Responding to a fellow polarizer, one thread reads: “Left my MAGA cult husband of 36 years. Retired 1 week after the inauguration and moved to the other side of the country. You did the right thing by trying and deciding it was too much; will feel better for it, believe me.”

MAGA has become a cult in the mind of the left. It is their go to trigger. And sure one can argue that there are MAGA that will overlook Donald Trump’s faults in favor of the Cult of personality as much as the left will for Barack Obama. But cults are a funny thing and from the Jim Jones’ Peoples Temple, to the Manson freaks, to the Branch Davidians, one common definition resonates. A Cult is regarded by others as strange or sinister or as imposing excessive control over its members. Left or right there is an element of control over their allegiance and ultimately their minds. Family is to be ostracized as a first principle. One can argue to what degree family is ostracized by the left or the right, revealing who is actually, by the numbers, a cult.

Per usual, the poll numbers on family estrangement, not opinion, tell the sad tale.

People on the so called left (designated liberals, modern Democrats, or “very liberal”) are consistently more likely than those on the so called right (conservatives, modern Republicans) to report having done so or to say it’s acceptable.

A 2024 Skeptic Research Center report reveals that Liberals (especially young ones) are substantially more likely to have stopped speaking to family members over political disagreements. Over a third (33%+) of Gen Z and Millennial liberals reported having cut ties with family. About 40% of “very liberals” have ended relationships with family or friends over politics (higher than any other group).

Conservatives show lower rates overall, though some younger or more extreme conservatives are higher than moderates.

The 2025 Argument magazine survey revealed that 50% of self identified liberals said it is acceptable to cut off family over opposing political views. Only 11% of conservatives said the same. Among Kamala Harris voters, 40% said it’s acceptable. Among Trump voters, 11% said it’s acceptable.

The late 2024 PRRI post-election survey reported that 23% of Democrats reported spending less time with certain family members due to political disagreements. While only 5% of Republicans reported the same, a nearly 5× difference.

A 2024 American Psychiatric Association poll tracked that 21% of Americans have become estranged from a family member due to disagreements on controversial topics.

A late 2024 Harris Poll showed 18-20% of estrangements are tied to political beliefs, with roughly similar overall rates between liberals (21%) and conservatives (20%), though other surveys show liberals more likely to initiate political cut offs. Some 2024-2025 polls note little overall difference in who ends up estranged, but the initiation and willingness are higher on the left.

Overall family estrangement has risen in recent years and affects as high as 25-50% of adults in some polls, with politics snowballing the divide.

Yet as the left and right claw at each other with hyperbolic nonsense for the most part, unwilling to sort out their differences. They remain oblivious to the true elephant in the room. The silent majority.

The silent majority has been driving the car the entire time while the left and the right squabble in the backseat. Historically, the term “silent majority” was used by Nixon in the late 1960s/early 1970s to describe a large group of everyday Americans who don’t loudly protest or align with extremes but hold mainstream, often moderate or pragmatic views.

Today, people often invoke it for those who reject strong left/right labels, dislike partisan polarization, and simply identify as “just American”, focusing on practical issues over ideology. And it is growing.

A record high 45% of U.S. adults identified as political independents in 2025 according to a Gallup survey, the highest since tracking began in 1988. This group explicitly doesn’t align with Democrats (27%) or Republicans (27%). Of these independents, about 10% don’t lean toward either party (pure independents), while the rest lean one way or another when pressed. Roughly 47% of independents describe themselves as moderates (not strongly left or right), compared to far fewer moderates among partisans.

Pew Research and other surveys often show around 40-45% identifying as independents in recent years, with only a small slice (under 10%) being truly non leaning and disengaged from partisan politics.

This reflects widespread frustration with polarization. Many Americans feel burned out by the left/right divide and prefer pragmatic, non-ideological approaches to issues like the economy, security, and daily life. The “silent majority” framing often resonates because the louder voices amplify extremes, while most people quietly prioritize being American over being strictly “red” or “blue.” Polls consistently show this group is large and growing, especially among younger generations.

These are the same people that gave their undivided attention when they were being fed a hoax or being gaslit by the left/right chaos because they refuse to be scammed, a natural instinct. The people who got it the first time they were told that the Trump “very fine people” on both sides was garbage. Or are well aware that Jussie Smollet took everyone for a ride and still does to this day. Or weighed out Covid vaccine information and quietly made their own decisions.

The silent majority still puts in their minimum 40 hours of work per week. Finding the time to squeeze a little of that pursuit of happiness we were all promised.

Why are the left and right so repulsive to the silent majority?

Well the right promised a pie in the sky return to American traditional values while regular Americans had billions of their hard earned tax dollars stolen by corruption and their votes stolen by a broken election system that the right has to be hounded to fix. Only to watch the right have all the pins setup to get the strike and throw a gutterball in favor of the Uniparty. The silent majority is well aware of the current laws and is flabbergasted that they aren’t enforced by a current right wing majority that is either treasonous or extremely weak or both.

While the left, well I’ll keep it simple. The left will not meet anyone in the middle. They are radicalized to the point of no return and become more dangerous as the news cycle accelerates their shared rage. They threaten the silent majority’s small businesses with the looming threat of being torched over a misunderstanding. And how do you reason with a child who appears to have dropped their ice cream cone into a mound of ants.

So next Thanksgiving, when the mashed potatoes hit the fan and Uncle Lou starts yelling “groomer!” at the sweet potato casserole, just remember……

This isn’t a family feud. This is performance art.

Directed by Satan, produced by cable news, and starring all of us.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I have to go call my second cousin back in Relief, Kentucky and apologize for that thing I said about her lawn sign in 2012. She still hasn’t returned my call. It’s been fourteen years.…And she’s probably right.

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