Episode 88 – Relationship Bankruptcy In this episode we discuss the issues with relationships and how hard it is to catch-up when your emotional bank account is overdrawn. Support the show

In this episode, we discuss a myriad of topics – adhd, how you can be lonely even while surrounded by people, and what to do about it all. Support the show

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! In this 2 part episode we discuss WHY we need a pride month and all different kind of pride related topics. We get a bit long-windeded but, hey, it's pride. We will post links to the articles we reference during the episode on our social media outlets. The other stuff Find all Episodes […]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! In this 2 part episode we discuss WHY we need a pride month and all different kind of pride related topics. We get a bit long-windeded but, hey, it's pride. We will post links to the articles we reference during the episode on our social media outlets. Also, sorry for the delay in […]

Episode 85 – Our Amazing Listeners How does it get any better than this … when we have such amazing and wonderful listeners that also exchange with us and share their stories … ? Sometimes we never truly know the weight or depth of our words and efforts, so it is truly a blessing when […]

Poly-Saturated – LGBTQIA News PolySaturated on politics … After a whirlwind of a crazy unplanned hiatus, we pull a deep one out on you all for this episode. Trigger warnings out the wazoo everyone. It's a tear-jerker. We cried while recording and then again while relistening to the edited version. We even do a not-typical-for-us […]

Episode 83 – Vetting, paranoia, background checks and more In this episode, Xan reveals his plummeted depths of paranoia and distrust in anything that walks on two legs (he also distrusts things with more than 2 legs), and we also touch on polyamorous vetting (ie: good things to ask or ways to get to know […]

Episode 82 – Balancing Responsibilities In this episode we started off with one topic in mind and end up evolving into something more organic. It ended up being about balancing responsibilities in a polycule. What responsibilities come with dating someone in a polyamorous relationship to things you should expect. The other stuff Find all Episodes […]

Episode 81 – Weird Perks of Polyamory After a few serious episodes, we bring you a fun and lighthearted episode where we list a few of the weird and overlooked perks of being polyamorous. Of course we throw in a few bunny trails. Come laugh with us and wish Xan and Scarlet a happy two […]

Episode 80 – Are you really poly? Are you though? Poly? Really? …. but, no, seriously? Are you really? In this episode we take a long and winding trip through how sometimes it's hard to believe people because they are in the habit of using words that mean different things than they think they mean. […]