Polycurious

By Fernanda

Non-monogamy is not for everyone, but you might be curious about it. Could it be right for you? How do non-monogamous couples deal with jealousy? I was curious myself, and the more I asked, the more I... more

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May 17, 2023 40. Metamours Who Are Friends with Aviva, Lorena & JD
Today I chat with metamours JD and Lorena, as well as their common partner Aviva (a metamour is a partner’s partner.) Even though Aviva and Lorena were dating first, JD has become Aviva’s nesting partner. And today we chat about how even though that transition was a little difficult, Lorena was also very happy for Aviva and JD, someone she knew and really liked. I was left feeling warm from this conversation as I could really tell there is so much love and respect between the three of them. I hope that regardless of whether you are close with your metamours or not you can take them as an inspiration in your journey.

Resources discussed in this episode:

Follow Aviva on Instagram at avivalaviv

Check out her website avivalaviv.com

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May 10, 2023 39. Intimacy and Psychedelics with Sarah Tilley
Today I speak to Sarah Tilley, Founder and CEO of Beautiful Space. Sarah is a psychedelic guide, integration specialist and couple therapist. Today she tells us about her work leveraging the power of psychedelics in relationships. We also talk about what couples might do to increase intimacy even without the use of these substances.

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May 09, 202338. Twelve Lessons in my Polycurious Journey
In this episode I talk about the 12 lessons I have learned in my Polycurious journey.
Be Patient. Go as fast as the slowest person

Find the right time to talk

Check with your partner before making plans with other people

Feeling guilt at first is normal

Don’t sugarcoat. Be honest with your partner

Determine how much you want to share with your partner

Meeting your partner’s partners (metamours) helps with jealousy

Jealousy and insecurities are likely to decrease with time

You can’t control your feelings for other people

Infatuation and New Relationship Energy can be fleeting

Be careful where you invest your energy

Non-sexual intimacy can be powerful

Resources discussed in this episode:
Fer & Seth’s episode
Jessica’ Esfandiary's episode
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
Rachel Krantz episode
Dr.Zhana's episode
Mariah & Fer's episode
Tory and Jackson's Monocurious episode

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May 03, 2023 37. How to Have a Good Threesome with All The Feels (Part 2)
Today I bring to you the second part of my conversation with Natasha + Jeremy, sex coaches and educators behind All The Feels. They give amazing tips around communication in and outside of the bedroom. Jeremy talks about ways that are sexy and respectful to approach women and they both share how to have a threesome that is fun and sexy and where everyone feels safe. We also talk about what one can do if you have a sexual desire or preference your partner doesn’t like.

Resources discussed in the episode:
Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power - Carolyn Elliott
Untamed - Glennon Doyle
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Pussy: A Reclamation - Regena Thomashuer
Dr. Eva Cadell Certified Sex Coach

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April 26, 2023 36. Turning Jelousy into Kink with All The Feels (Part 1)
Today I had a wonderful discussion with Natasha and Jeremy, the couple behind All The Feels. They are certified sex coaches, working on empowering people to have better sex lives. Besides coaching, they also educate through their instagram and their porn videos.

Today we chat about their journeys taking charge of their sexuality and navigating non-mongamy. Natasha also tells us how she went from feeling jealousy to getting turned on when seeing Jeremy having sex with other women.

Resources discussed in the episode:
Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power - Carolyn Elliott
Untamed - Glennon Doyle
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Pussy: A Reclamation - Regena Thomashuer
Dr. Eva Cadell Certified Sex Coach

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April 19, 2023 35. Opening to Polyamory with Jessica Esfandiary from Open Late
Today I speak to Jessica Esfandiary, the host of the Open Late podcast. She tells us how she opened up her now 9 year relationship only a few months in, after an ‘accidental’ threesome. We talk about how she went from hiding her open lifestyle even from her closest friends to having a podcast about non-monogamy. She also tells us the reasons why she likes being polyamorous, including seeing a side of herself she doesn’t always express with her partner.

Resources discussed in the episode:

⁠The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures (book)⁠

⁠Relationship Style Quiz

Listen to Open Late
Spotify: Are You Polycurious with Fernanda from the Polycurious Podcast
Apple Podcast: Are You Polycurious with Fernanda from the Polycurious Podcast

Connect with Open Late on Instagram

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April 12, 2023 34. Managing Two Partners and Building Community with Jenny & Kris (Part 2)
In the second part of our conversation with Jenny and Kris we chat about a time when Jenny fell in love with a secondary partner and had a hard time managing both relationships. Jenny also tells us about the parties she organizes and how it all began as a way to connect the non-monogamous community.

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April 12, 2023 33. Open From the Get Go with Jenny & Kris (Part 1)
In today’s episode Mariah and I chat with Jenny and Kris, who have been together for almost a decade and navigated non-monogamy from the beginning. They tell us everything about their introduction to the non-monogamous world and what they learned in this process.

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April 05, 2023 32. Letting Go of Shame with Philip from Dear Poly
Today I chat with Philip, the host of the podcast Dear Poly where I was a guest last year. We go deep into Philip’s coming out story and how he had to break so much stigma in his religious community to be his true self. If you have ever had a hard time letting go of shame, as a queer person, non-monogamous person or simply someone with a high sex drive, I think you will resonate with this episode.

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March 29, 2023 31. Healing Sexual Trauma with Jess & Zach from Sacred Ships
Jess is a trauma centered relationship coach and plant medicine guide. Zach is a breath work facilitator and men’s intimacy coach. Together they have the Sacred Ships podcast, where I had the pleasure to be a guest last year.
Today we talk about how they healed their sexual trauma, partly through their relationship. Zach opens up about using porn in a way affected his sexual performance, and reveals what he did to get to a comfortable place with his sexuality. Having casual sex with other women and opening up their relationship was actually an important part of this process.

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Resources mentioned in the episode:
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy (book)
The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know (book)

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