Welcome to my podcast, Popcorn Therapy with Julie Peters, where the stories we love tell us something about who we are! I’ve been doing the show for over a year now, but this is the first episode I am sharing here on Substack—a little before everyone else gets to see it.
In this episode, my good friend Marcelle Kosman, who is also the co-host of the excellent pop culture podcast Material Girls, joins me. We had to talk about Heated Rivalry, the queer hockey romance that has become a global sensation, for Valentine’s day. Of course!
For me, one of the most impactful aspects of this show was the realistic (at least, to me) expression of a loving, consensual sexuality that invited everyone involved to be the human beings that they are. As someone who has experienced sexual violence, watching this show felt, as therapist Esther Perel has put it, like a “corrective experience.” It’s an expression of queer joy, sexual joy, and romantic joy in a world where we are so used to things feeling tragic and dire.
It has also been fascinating to learn how many straight (or straight-ish) women (or women-ish) love this show. Marcelle and I talk about whether or not it’s a heterosexual romance trope deployed in a queer narrative and what it feels like to watch men try (and often fail) to communicate their feelings with each other.
Be warned that this episode is quite explicit and very heavy on spoilers. If you haven’t watched Heated Rivalry yet, please get to it, and then come back and listen to this episode! You can also listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you prefer to listen to your podcasts.
This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit juliepeterswellness.substack.com