This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with Da Brat and Judy for a real, funny, and emotional conversation about how their love story actually happened!

They break down the first time they met, how Judy shot her shot at the studio, and the moment Brat realized she was catching real feelings. The couple gets into the miscommunication that almost kept them apart, including the infamous Atlanta flight with no answer, the ghosting, and the relationship Judy had that made Brat realize she might’ve lost “the one.” From stalking Instagram to finally reconnecting, they tell the full story of how they found their way back to each other.

Brat and Judy also open up about marriage, motherhood, and how having their son changed their relationship. They get real about their IVF journey, the genetic testing process, the backlash they faced over choosing a sperm donor, and the health scare that landed Judy in the hospital with blood clots. The conversation goes deep into what it really takes to build a family, protect your peace, and make hard decisions in public.

Plus, Judy talks her entrepreneur bag — from TikTok Live selling and e-commerce pressure to how the economy has changed how people buy — while Brat keeps it honest about work-life balance, boundaries, and not wanting to work 17 hours straight.

And of course, Ty sets the vibe with a custom cocktail called “The Way Love Goes” in honor of their book, while the room stays full of laughs, real talk, and classic Pour Minds chaos.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode — just a kickback with the girls — and it goes from unhinged to deep real quick. They start off debating the afterlife and reincarnation (because imagine coming back as a roach??) and spiral into questions nobody can answer: what do we look like when we cross over, do we get signs from loved ones, and do we really come back as somebody—or something—else?

The girls also catch up on life updates, gym routines, sleep schedules, and Lex learning the hard way that being “too honest” on the internet will have folks dragging your name for fun. From raggedy car jokes to people tagging you in wild stuff, they talk about setting boundaries with fans, not letting strangers get too comfortable, and why blocking is self-care in 2026.
Then they get into a bigger conversation: are people addicted to being offended? Lex and Drea break down rage bait culture, cancel culture, and why folks love acting morally superior online — even when they don’t keep that same energy in real life.

Plus, The Bed (brought to you by Salt.xo) gets spicy with hookup etiquette: don’t ghost, wrap it up, be honest about other partners, and for the love of God… don’t be doing mouth-spit activities with a hookup like it’s a committed relationship.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole kick off the new year with a solo episode, just the two of them, catching up and getting honest as they step into 2026.

The girls talk lifestyle shifts, Dry January (or the attempt at it), fitness journeys, and the pressure that comes with trying to “reset” every new year. From debating cutting back on drinking to unpacking personal habits they’re actively working through, this episode is all about growth without pretending perfection exists.

Lex and Drea also dive into relationships and boundaries—why more women are choosing not to live with men, how cleanliness and personal space can make or break a relationship, and the difference between standards and control. They touch on beauty trends, filler culture, and the quiet insecurity that can come with chasing an ever-changing look online.

Things take a deeper turn as they discuss friendship fallouts, family betrayal, letting go of people who no longer serve you, and whether everything really deserves closure. The conversation wraps with candid talk about aging, sex, libido myths, flakiness, accountability, and why communication still matters, even when you’re tired.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by the queen of reinvention herself — India Love — for an honest, vulnerable, and hilarious conversation that covers everything.

India opens up about growing up on the internet, being one of the original influencers before social media was even a job, and how she’s navigated fame, criticism, and constant reinvention. From her Tumblr days to reality TV, music, and now Twitch streaming, she breaks down what it really takes to stay relevant without losing yourself.

The girls get into her viral streamer awards moment (yes, that moment), internet backlash, learning accountability, and why she’s currently taking a break from alcohol and dating to focus on her relationship with God. India also gets real about OnlyFans, money, family, and the moment that made her walk away from it all.

Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without a little mess — the ladies play Love It or Leave It, talk celebrity dating (or not ), men chasing women they can’t have, soul ties, boundaries, and why turning 30 hits different.

This episode is funny, raw, reflective, and full of growth — a reminder that evolution isn’t always pretty, but it’s always necessary.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The girls are back on the couch — and this time, they’re joined by media personality, journalist, and fitness baddie Kayla Nicole. From the jump, it’s laughs, honesty, and real conversations as Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with someone they’ve been watching, respecting, and rooting for for a long time.

The trio gets into everything from Kayla’s journey in media, her early days at TMZ, and what it really takes to survive in entertainment when the internet won’t let you forget your past. They talk reinvention, public perception, and why letting comments shape your identity will burn you out faster than anything else.

Things get real as they unpack fitness as therapy, mental health, discipline, and why movement isn’t just about bodies — it’s about clarity, confidence, and sanity. Kayla opens up about building her own lane, protecting her peace, and learning when to speak up versus when to let people talk.

Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without the chaos. The conversation spirals into shooting your shot in 2026 (no more hint-dropping), dating fatigue, freezing eggs vs. trusting the timeline, and whether your sexual past is allowed to stay in the past — including a hilarious debate about “retiring” from things you once did in the bedroom.

Funny, honest, and full of grown-woman gems, this episode is all about growth, boundaries, self-trust, and realizing you don’t owe the internet an explanation for who you used to be.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The girls are back on the couch — and this time, they’re joined by media mogul, cultural commentator, and certified uncle of the internet, Charlamagne Tha God. From the jump, it’s laughs, honesty, and real conversations as Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with one of the most influential voices in media.
The trio dives into everything from podcast longevity, building something from the ground up, and why consistency matters more than clout. Charlamagne opens up about the evolution of The Breakfast Club, navigating public criticism, and what it really takes to survive (and thrive) in this industry long-term.
Things get real as they talk mental health, therapy, and why healing isn’t optional — especially in Black communities. They unpack fame, growth, and how staying grounded matters more than ever, plus why everybody wants a platform but not everyone is built for the work.
Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without the chaos — from wild side conversations to unexpected confessions, messy moments, and a few “wait…what?” tangents that only this trio could pull off.
Funny, reflective, and full of gems — this episode is a masterclass in growth, self-awareness, and knowing when to laugh at yourself.
#PourMinds #CharlamagneThaGod #LexP #DreaNicole 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The girls are back on the couch — and this time, they’re joined by Ken The Man, so you already know the vibes are loud, real, and unfiltered. Lex P and Drea Nicole kick things off swapping wild dating stories, from clocking pink birthday balloons on a “guys trip” to realizing you’re accidentally the Uber driver in someone else’s relationship.
From there, the conversation spirals (as it should). Ken talks touring as an independent artist, building a loyal fanbase, and trying to figure out what to actually call them. The trio gets into pour decisions involving cars, exes, drunk mistakes, bad window tint, and why confidence plus tequila is a dangerous combo.
Things take a left into random-but-relatable territory — animal look-alikes, reindeer noises, Star Wars hot takes, cruises vs. flights, and the very real fear of being stuck on a boat with no WiFi. Then the episode shifts into grown talk: love bombing vs. real love, dating in your 30s, knowing when to work through things and when to let them go, and why settling out of fear is never worth it.
Funny, chaotic, honest, and full of side quests — exactly how a Pour Minds episode should feel. 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The girls are back in their no-guest, unhinged era — just Lex P and Drea Nicole on the couch, letting the conversation fly.

They kick things off debating movies that get straight to the point, then spiral into lash blindness, beauty breaks, and New York energy. Lex shares her first Starlets experience, the differences between Southern and NYC strip club culture, and asks the real question: where were the brown girls?

The convo takes a wild turn into aggressive honking, Uber chaos, big dogs in small apartments, pet hygiene, and why everybody doesn’t need a Great Dane in a one-bedroom. From there, things get messy with funky breath debates, veneers done right vs. shortcut veneers, and brushing your tongue (yes, it matters).

They close things out talking growth, reinvention, and evolution — how Pour Minds has changed, why growth isn’t “switching up,” and what it really means to show up as your most authentic self.

Funny, honest, and very Pour Minds.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The girls are back in their cozy era — and they pull up to New York for a long-awaited sit-down with the Podfather himself: Joe Budden. After years of friendship, jokes, and cross-appearances, Joe finally joins Lex and Drea on the Pour Minds couch for a raw, hilarious, and surprisingly heartfelt episode.

They dive into everything: the evolution of podcasting, why “gender war” content is tired, how Black love is making a comeback online, and what it really takes to build a multimillion-dollar media empire without selling your soul. Joe opens up about contracts, creativity, his relationship, the Podwives, and why he always trusted the Poor Minds rise from day one.

The trio gets into cheating economics, pander-men, classism, industry politics, and of course… Lex gets her messy questions off — respectfully.

This is Pour Minds x Joe Budden — an episode years in the making.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The girls are in full giggle mode this week because Atlanta’s own Bunna B stopped by the studio — and she brought all the vibes. Lex and Drea dive into everything from growing up in Edgewood to blowing up online to how fast her music career took off. Bunna opens up about signing with Atlantic, going viral off pure personality, and why she’ll always stay loyal to the people who were with her before the fame.

They get into friendship dynamics, industry drama, protecting your energy, and choosing happiness over chaos — all while laughing nonstop because Bunna’s personality is contagious. She talks chart success, working with Lizzo and Metro Boomin, going viral on streams, and navigating the politics of choosing sides in the music industry (or choosing not to).

The ladies also break down cheating, character, why grown women need to stop lying for no reason, and whether “big boys” really do it better in bed. If you need a laugh, a little girl talk, and a reminder to mind your business and smile through the BS… this episode is for you.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.