Pouty Mouth

By Tara Herbert

For high-functioning heathens, recovering pick-me’s, and anyone who escaped a high-demand religion with nothing but trauma and sarcasm. Come unpack the messy intersections of religious deconstruction,... more

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The podcast currently has 42 episodes available.

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October 22, 2024 Pouting About LDS Adoption Scam w/ Kauri Taylor
In this week's episode of Pouty Mouth, I'm thrilled to have Kari Taylor join us to share her deeply personal journey through adoption, Mormonism, and the challenges of infertility. Kari opens up about her complex family dynamics and the trauma of being adopted into a large family while navigating her racial identity in a predominantly white religious environment. We delve into her experiences of leaving Mormonism and the revelations that came with understanding her adoption story more fully. Kari's story is one of resilience and healing, as she discusses the impact of racial identity, the church's influence on her self-perception, and the journey to find her own path outside of the church. Join us for an eye-opening conversation about faith, family, and finding one's true self.
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1h 39min
October 22, 2024 Pouting About Race and Religion w/Channel Achenbach
This week I'm pouting with Chanel Achenbach about her experiences with Mormonism, including her conversion, the challenges of navigating her racial identity within the church, and the impact of church teachings on her self-perception. Chanel shares her journey of seeking truth, confronting racism, and ultimately finding her own identity outside of the church. Our conversation highlights the complexities of being a black woman in a predominantly white religious community and the importance of building a supportive community.
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1h 12min
September 24, 2024 Pouting About Connection
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In today's episode I'm pouting about the complexities of my relationships with my adoptive parents, mixed-faith marriage, and biological family. I talk about the emotional challenges of navigating these relationships and the desire for deeper connections, while also addressing the impact of my upbringing on my parenting style.

00:00 Introduction to the Pouty Mouth Podcast
02:16 Navigating Adoption and Mormonism
10:44 Family Dynamics and Mixed-Faith Relationships
18:54 Exploring Biological Family Connections
30:03 Parenting in a Mixed-Faith Marriage
42:54 Closing Thoughts and Future Directions
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39min
September 11, 2024 Pouting About Motherhood and Womanhood w/Brittany Hartley
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Today I'm talking with Brittany Hartley! We discuss the impact of adoption, and deconstructing Mormonism, me as an adoptee and Brittany as an adopted parent. We explore topics such as the trauma of adoption, the ethical considerations of adoption, the importance of cultural connection, and the challenges of racial identity. We also touch on the internalized racism and shame that can be perpetuated by religion, our experiences with motherhood and the existential crisis that can arise from losing all anchors in life. We explore the feelings of uncertainty and the void that can arise when leaving a religious community, as well as the impact of adoption on their sense of connection and bonding with their children. Overall, our conversation highlights the healing and growth that can come from embracing vulnerability and redefining one's own values and spirituality as women and mothers.
01:18 The Impact of Adoption on Children and Families
04:48 The Importance of Acknowledging Racial Identity in Adoption
09:08 The Role of Shame and Anxiety in the Context of Religion and Adoption
15:49 Nihilism and the Loss of Anchors in Life
34:48 The Void and the Path of Uncertainty
36:44 Rebuilding Anchors and Rituals
38:56 Making Peace with Death and Embracing Uncertainty
40:14 Taking Risks into Authenticity
41:35 The Gifts and Terrors of the Void
42:25 The Healing Power of Psilocybin Mushrooms
44:58 The Impact of Religion on Motherhood
46:44 Reframing Values and Rituals
49:00 Finding Safety in Science and Authenticity
51:45 Creating Family Culture and Rituals
52:12 Respecting Individual Paths and Choices
53:30 Shifting from Leading to Holding Hands
55:34 Shadow Work in Motherhood57:21Leaving Gifts Behind
01:00:57 Defining Values and Creating Family Culture
01:02:44 The Gift of Imperfection
01:04:35 Maintaining Connection and Supporting Individual Paths
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1h 11min
September 03, 2024 Pouting About LDS Family Services pt 1
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Today we're pouting about adoption in the United States, and how LDS family services has shaped it. I get into how adoption legally works like, the loss of rights and access to biological family, immediate maternal separation, and the lack of consideration for biological fathers. I talk about the impact of adoption on mental health, the concept of the adoption fog, and the role of Mormonism in shaping my adoption experience. I emphasize the need for reform in the adoption system and challenges the notion that adoption is a solution to infertility and abortion.

01:29 Understanding Adoption in the United States
08:12 The Impact of Adoption on Mental Health
13:52 The Adoption Fog: Fear, Obligation, and Guilt
15:46 Mormon Teachings About Adoption
37:36 The Role of LDS Social Services in Adoption
43:27 Coercion and Unethical Practices in Adoption
45:23 The Changing Landscape of Adoption
53:33 The Need for Reform in the Adoption Industry
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1h 3min
August 27, 2024 The One About Navigating Identity as an Adoptee w/Marisa Cannon
TW: Self Harm, Sexual Assault

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Today I'm joined by Marissa Cannon, the 2023 Miss Bikini USA, she shares her story of being an adoptee and an ex-Mormon. She discusses her childhood in Arizona and the strict Mormon upbringing she experienced. Marissa talks about the challenges she faced in Utah, including the lack of racial diversity and the strict rules imposed by her parents. She also opens up about the bullying she endured and the impact it had on her self-confidence, particularly regarding her natural hair. Marissa reflects on the missed opportunities and restrictions she faced due to her parents' strictness, but also acknowledges that it may have kept her from engaging in certain negative behaviors. She also discusses her journey with bipolar disorder and the importance of seeking help for mental health issues. She discusses the challenges she faced, including ADHD, anxiety, and self-harm, as well as the trauma she experienced from being assaulted by her grandfather.

00:00 Introduction and Accomplishments
01:25 Childhood and Adoption
04:15 Growing Up in a Strict Mormon Household
07:01 Challenges of Racial Diversity
10:48 Cultural Shock and Switching Schools
14:06 Navigating Dating and Reactions to Race
20:12 Lack of Education on Adoption and Race
26:52 Self-Confidence and Hair Struggles
32:04 Missed Opportunities and Restrictions
37:14 Journey with Bipolar Disorder
00:32 Growing up as an adopted child in a Mormon family
10:48 Challenges faced: ADHD, anxiety, and self-harm
20:12 Trauma from assault and the impact on mental health
30:38 Discovering birth family and navigating relationships
40:36 Creating inclusive environments for transracial adoptees
49:54 Importance of accessing medical history
59:57 Supporting adoptees: financial assistance and amplifying voices
01:10:08 Leaving Mormonism and reclaiming identity
01:20:12 Final Thoughts
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1h 20min
August 20, 2024 The One About Mormon Influencer Drama
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I discuss the online drama surrounding the Ballerina Farm and the secret lives of Mormon wives. I share my thoughts on the controversial article about the Ballerina Farm and the patriarchal dynamics within Mormonism. I also talk about the marketing of Mormon influencers and the reduction of women to their traditional roles. I get into the drama surrounding the show 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' and the reactions from the Mormon community, my excitement and support for my close friend, Whitney Levitt, who is a cast member on the show. The conversation also delves into the experiences of the cast members, including their relationships, adoption, and career choices. I host share personal anecdotes and reflections on Mormonism and the challenges faced by Mormon and ex-Mormon women.

00:00 The Online Drama of the Ballerina Farm
02:01 Exploring the Patriarchal Dynamics within Mormonism
07:16 The Marketing Strategies of Mormon Influencers
27:39 Drama Surrounding 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' and Backlash
33:28 Representation of Mormonism and Community Reactions
41:31 Cast Members' Experiences: Relationships, Adoption, and Careers
45:19 Personal Reflections on Mormonism and Challenges Faced by Women
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50min
August 06, 2024 The One About Adoption Misconceptions
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In this episode I address some of the comments and misconceptions surrounding adoption. I discuss the trauma of adoption, the complexities of adoptee experiences, and the need for reform in the adoption system. I share my feelings about being adopted and the challenges of forming attachments with my biological family. The challenges and sacrifices that adoptees and their families make, as well as the misconceptions and stereotypes surrounding adoption. I also want to emphasize the importance of compassion and understanding when discussing adoption and encourage an open dialogue and support for adoptees and their families.

00:00 Introduction and Addressing Comments
03:02 The Trauma and Complexities of Adoption
06:17 The Need for Adoption Reform
10:23 Challenges of Forming Attachments with Biological Family
32:53 The Complexities of Adoption
43:24 Navigating the Challenges of Leaving Mormonism
56:19 Breaking Down Stereotypes and Misconceptions
01:03:19 Fostering Compassion and Understanding in Adoption
01:04:46 Creating a Supportive Space for Adoptees and Families

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57min
July 30, 2024 The One About Adopted Sisters
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Today I'm having a conversation with my sister Kailie and we discuss our different experiences growing up in the same adopted family. We talk about Kailie's adoption story, her challenges of being biracial, our experiences with Mormonism, and struggles with depression. We also touch on the erasure of our biological identities and the need for support for birth parents.
Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities of adoption and the impact it can have on an individual's sense of self. We talk a lot about mental health and offer advice to adoptees and adoptive parents, emphasizing the importance of therapy, communication, and understanding.
03:06 Navigating Identity: Growing Up in an Adopted Family 06:02 The Challenges of Being Biracial 08:51 The Impact of Mormonism on Mental Health 12:04 The Erasure of Biological Identities in Adoption 15:10 The Need for Support for Birth Parents 29:32 Navigating Mental Health and Self-Discovery 45:39 The Complexities of Adoption 55:01 Therapy, Communication, and Compassion 57:14 Breaking Free from Religious Beliefs
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1h 0min
July 23, 2024 The One About Gay Stuff
In this conversation, Dean and I discuss experiences and the challenges of being LGBTQ+ in a religious community. We explore topics such as allyship, coming out, and the intersection of religion and sexuality. Dean shares his personal journey of coming out to his parents and the mixed reactions he received. We also touch on the lack of comprehensive sex education in our upbringing and the impact it had on our understanding of our own sexuality.

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01:11 Exploring Questions of Allyship and Coming Out
14:15 Challenging Cultural Norms in Utah
22:49 Discovering Sexuality and the Lack of Sex Education
25:50 The Impact of Inadequate Sex Education
29:42 Stigma and Anxiety Surrounding HIV
33:41 Double Standards in Relationships
42:37 The Milestone of Legalizing Gay Marriage
47:11 Concerns about Regression in LGBTQ+ Rights
49:56 The Challenges Faced by Queer Students at BYU
50:43 The Impact of BYU's Policies on LGBTQ+ Individuals
55:22 The Privilege of Not Having to Think About LGBTQ+ Issues
01:02:05 Understanding PrEP and Its Relevance to the LGBTQ+ Community
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1h 11min

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