We're all born with the innate capacity to connect, but somewhere along the way, many of us learned to hide instead. In this powerful conversation with bestselling author Marcy Axelrod, we explore the science behind authentic human connection and how the simple act of showing up transforms not just our own lives, but ripples outward in ways we never imagined.

Marcy shares her deeply personal journey from developing a severe stutter at age six to becoming an expert on human connection. This early trauma launched her on a lifelong quest to understand how humans navigate presence and authenticity. Drawing from neuroscience, psychology, evolutionary biology, and behavioral economics, she reveals a fascinating framework for understanding the three levels of showing up: barely there, just showing up, and truly showing up.

The most startling revelation? Your presence impacts far more people than you realize. Research shows the 20 people closest to you are 45% more likely to adopt your behaviors, with your influence extending to approximately 8,000 people you'll never meet. This interconnected web forms the foundation of Marci's three-dimensional model of human existence – we simultaneously operate as individualized selves, situation members co-creating each present moment, and societal members influencing the broader culture.

For those struggling with fear, disconnection, or the aftermath of trauma, Marcy offers practical guidance to move from "just showing up" to "truly showing up." Simple practices like conscious breathing and body awareness can regulate your nervous system, creating space for authentic connection. Perhaps most importantly, she emphasizes the healing power of acceptance – both accepting yourself and being willing to honestly share your struggles with others.

Ready to transform how you show up in life? Listen now and discover why Mel Robbins and leading experts from Harvard, Yale, and Stanford have endorsed Marci's groundbreaking work. Visit choosetoshowup.com to continue your journey toward authentic connection.

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