After a week where Aceil went viral on Twitter, and Ellis finally went to the gym, our hosts reflect on the effect childcare costs are having on women who want to start a family, can we really have it all? We are then joined by the founders of @the.mixed.message, an empowering community for Black mixed raced people and discuss the success of their platform, the importance of representation and discourse around the issues of race (especially) within mixed race families, and how to build a brand on Instagram.