In our fourth shiur Rav Burg discusses: 1. The various paradigms of children with low self esteem. Thus far we have discussed children who anticipate losing and must avoid it all costs as well as children who feel that nobody can understand them.  2. Parenting the value of the process as opposed to the results. 3. How empathy helps children develop an identity.

At the end of the shiur you ought to be able to answer the following questions clearly and concisely: