Commentary notes
Questions to ask yourself before deleting a relationship
* In general do you respect the other party?
* You can dislike someone but still respect their abilities, performance, and achievements. You can even like someone with whom you have disagreements.
* Is this a party you should keep open the option of working with in the future?
* What could the downside be of closing the door to future collaborations?
* Perhaps your position on the issue may not be as “right” in part or in totality?
* Maybe you can learn something through a disagreement?
Things to do to keep a relationship with someone after a disagreement
* Don’t say or do anything you can’t take back.
* Demonstrate your interest in that person.
* Keep an open channel. Send a periodic email. Have coffee once a quarter with the person. Pass along articles
* Be patient.
* Be friendly.
* Be genuine. Don’t try too hard.
* Treat people with dignity and respect
* This is how we often treat strangers. Why should we treat people we know in a less civil manner?
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