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Question: I hear a lot about working on oneself- I often get inspired to "do something about it," sit down and do a little cheshbon hanefesh, but don't really know what to do after that. Can Rebbi give practical steps for how exactly to work on/change a Middah? E.g. self-control? I know it's probably an individualized process but in general, what should one do?