Welcome back to Practically Pastoring. In this episode, we pull two real questions from Reddit and get painfully practical.
Question 1: A rural Methodist pastor has seen real growth, but the “old guard” is wearing him down with constant complaints and unreasonable expectations.
Question 2: A bi-vocational pastor/CTO is overloaded and torn between an IT master’s (paid for by work) and a doctorate in Bible exposition, while trying to protect his health and family time. 
Timestamps / Chapters
00:00 — Intro + why Reddit questions hit so hard
00:29 — Question 1: “The old guard is making me miserable” (rural Methodist church)
01:14 — The complaint list (and why some of it is wild)
02:42 — Committees, bureaucracy, and the shadow side of church systems
05:16 — “They want a chaplain” and resetting expectations for pastoral care
07:10 — Perception is reality: communication, tone, and leadership clarity
09:32 — The 80/20 rule: it feels like “everyone,” but it’s usually not
10:49 — Leverage you don’t realize you have (and who to call)
12:30 — Ad: Practically Pastoring Conference (Feb 9–11, 2026)
14:50 — Ad: Church Merch (quality merch people actually want)
15:53 — Question 2: Bi-vocational pastor/CTO overwhelmed and choosing degrees
18:25 — Stewardship, margin, health, and family: what can you actually carry?
19:38 — Prioritizing earning potential and ministry margin
21:27 — Andrew’s offer: email if you want to talk doctorates at Liberty
23:26 — Frank’s take: bi-vocational life has limits, and that’s okay
26:09 — Free learning options (seminary resources, YouTube, Greek tools)
28:25 — Closing + subscribe + conference reminder
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