Welcome to the second part of our conversation with Ms. Gayatri Kiran.
Ms. Gayatri Kiran stresses on the importance of parents speaking to their children at home. Understanding and accepting their mental state and talking to them in a simple and loving way can make a huge difference. Parents should accept their fears and talk. She advises that the children must have a routine. It may not be followed very strictly, but it should ideally be a routine which has exercises, games, reading and entertainment. If possible, some activities towards spiritual development should be included as well. This routine can make them feel that ‘everything is ok’.
Developing contacts through video calls or even through letters can reduce loneliness among children. Art and craft work, making posters – it could be related to Covid – will keep them positively engaged. This can also lead to right information and that can build courage in them. Playing games such as Ludo, carrom, cowrie shells etc. will help.
Ms. Gayatri Kiran makes it clear that parents have to pay attention to online classes, including ‘Samveda’ classes on the radio. Learning does not happen only when they are in a class. Involving children in the house hold work can teach them a lot. Children should be given work that is within their ability.
She feels life skills are learnt through experience. When there is a situation, facing it and coming out of it successfully teaches important lessons. Hence we should allow the children to experience life situations. Children take their parents as role models.
She feels it is important to talk about people whom they know, who have recovered from Covid and also about close relatives or friends who passed away due to the illness. Only the right information can lead to building courage. Talk to them about the efforts of doctors and nurses and scientists in creating and administering the vaccine. If they have questions, we have to address them. Importance to preventive care is the need of the hour.
The don’ts – Don’t hide information from children. Don’t spread false information or help such activities. Don’t scare them.
Please contact here for information –
1. National help line #1075.
2. Makkala Sahaaya vaani # 1098.
3. UNICEF website.(Type UNICEF Covid 19 and children on Google)
4. Type UNICEF Covid 19 childline – on Google
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