The Truth About Christians and Self Defense
Matthew 10.16
Dear friends, one of the most sensitive, yet neglected conversations in our generation is the position of the Christian when it comes to self-defense.
For a long time, this subject has been avoided, from the pulpit to the pew. And because of that silence, many believers have been left confused, vulnerable, and in some cases, unprepared for the harsh realities of life.
In many parts of our world today, including our very own environment, we hear of killings, abductions, destruction of properties, and lives being cut short without warning. These are not distant stories, they are real, present, and painful.
And so the question arises:
What does Christ expect of us in moments like this?
In Matthew 10.16, Jesus said: “Behold, I send you out as sheep in the midst of wolves. Therefore be wise as serpents and harmless as doves.”
That statement alone captures the tension of the Christian life:
* We are sheep - gentle, harmless, not violent.
* Yet we are sent among wolves - dangerous, hostile, unpredictable.
So how do we live in that tension?
Let us begin by understanding what self-defense means.
Self-defense is the justified use of reasonable force to protect oneself from imminent harm or unlawful attack. It is not revenge. It is not aggression. It is a response; measured, necessary, and often urgent.
Even in Scripture, we see that God’s people were not always passive in the face of danger.
In Exodus 22.2-3, provision was made for defending one’s home.
In Nehemiah 4.17, the builders worked with one hand and held weapons with the other.
David, in 1 Samuel 17, did not fold his hands before Goliath, he acted, trusting God while using what was in his hand.
So clearly, the Bible does not promote foolish exposure to danger.
But we must be careful here. Because while Scripture acknowledges the reality of defense, it also places a strong emphasis on restraint, wisdom, and the condition of the heart.
Jesus did tell His disciples in Luke 22.36 to acquire a sword. But when that same sword was used in haste during His arrest, He said:
“Put your sword back in its place… for all who take the sword will perish by the sword.” (Matthew 26:52)
That tells us something important: “The presence of a means of defense is not a license for reckless action.”
Now, as Christians, we must hold two truths together.
First, we are called to be wise. Not careless. Not naive. Not ignorant of the dangers around us.
Second, we are called to be harmless. Not driven by hatred. Not quick to destroy. Not eager for violence.
This balance is where maturity lies.
The Apostle Paul, in 1 Timothy 5:8, speaks about providing for one’s household. And truly, provision is not only about food, clothing, and shelter but also about safety and protection.
A man who watches harm come upon his family without any sense of responsibility has misunderstood stewardship. At the same time, our confidence is never in weapons, strength, or strategy but in God.
As the Scripture says:
“For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God…” (2 Corinthians 10:4)
And again:
“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood…” (Ephesians 6:12)
So even when we speak of defense, we must never forget: Our greatest battle is spiritual.
So what then should a Christian do in the face of danger?
First, be vigilant.
Awareness can prevent many tragedies.
Second, pursue peace where possible.
Words, wisdom, and calmness can de-escalate situations.
Third, make use of lawful means.
Report threats. Seek help. Do not isolate yourself in crisis.
And where life is directly threatened, there may be moments that require immediate and proportionate action but even then, guided by wisdom, not rage.
Beloved, this is not a call to violence.
This is a call to responsibility.
A call to wisdom.
A call to live with both faith and understanding. Because it is possible to defend your life and still preserve your soul.
As we reflect on the realities around us today, especially in places where lives have been lost and communities shaken, we must not respond with fear alone.
We must respond with clarity. Faith. Wisdom.
May God grant us discernment to know what to do in every situation.
May He preserve our lives and the lives of our loved ones. And may we never lose the spirit of Christ even in the face of danger. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Oghenevwede A. Ubiuku
Minister