KINDNESS
Text: Ephesians 4:32 – “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”
In today’s world, where selfishness, bitterness, and harshness seem to be the order of the day, the command to be kind stands out as a divine necessity. Kindness is more than mere politeness or good manners; it is a reflection of God’s nature in the life of His people. It is one of the fruits of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5:22, meaning it is evidence of a Spirit-filled life. True kindness is not passive but active; it moves beyond mere words to tangible deeds of love and compassion.
To understand kindness, we must first define it from a biblical perspective. Kindness is the deliberate act of showing goodness, compassion, and mercy to others, whether or not they deserve it. Luke 6:35 teaches, “But love your enemies, do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for He is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.” This shows that kindness is selfless, unconditional, and practical. It is not based on feelings but on a decision to do good as God commands.
Our perfect example of kindness is God Himself. In creation, He shows kindness by providing for both the righteous and the wicked; “He maketh His sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust” (Matthew 5:45). In salvation, His kindness reaches its peak: while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). Titus 3:4–5 calls this the “kindness and love of God our Savior.” Daily, His kindness sustains us; His mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22–23). If we have received such overwhelming kindness, how can we refuse to extend it to others?
Why, then, must we be kind? Firstly, because God commands it. Micah 6:8 reminds us that one of the things the Lord requires of us is to “love mercy.” Secondly, kindness reflects Christ in us; Colossians 3:12 calls us to “put on kindness” as part of our Christian character. Thirdly, kindness is a powerful tool for evangelism. Acts of love often speak louder than sermons. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 5:16, “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” Finally, we all need kindness. Today you may be the one showing it, but tomorrow you may be the one in need of it.
The Bible is filled with inspiring examples of kindness. The parable of the Good Samaritan in Luke 10:30–37 teaches that kindness knows no boundaries of race, religion, or status. Dorcas, in Acts 9:36–39, was known for her acts of kindness, making garments for widows, and her good works spoke for her even in death. Jonathan’s kindness to David in 1 Samuel shows loyalty and selflessness in friendship, and David’s later kindness to Jonathan’s son Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9:1–7) shows how kindness can endure beyond generations.
How can we show kindness in our daily lives? We can start with our words. Proverbs 15:1 says, “A soft answer turneth away wrath.” A kind word can lift a broken spirit or calm a troubled heart. We can show kindness through our deeds by helping those in need, visiting the sick, comforting the grieving, and supporting the weak (James 1:27). Forgiveness is another profound act of kindness—letting go of grudges, as Christ forgave us (Matthew 18:21–22). Lastly, we can be kind through hospitality—welcoming others into our homes and hearts (Hebrews 13:2).
However, obstacles hinder many from being kind. Selfishness blinds us to the needs of others (Philippians 2:3–4). Pride makes us feel superior, unwilling to stoop low to help (Romans 12:16). Unforgiveness hardens the heart, making kindness impossible (Ephesians 4:31–32). If we are to be truly kind, these barriers must be torn down by God’s grace.
Kindness, therefore, is not optional for the Christian; it is a command and a calling. It is a mark of spiritual maturity and a witness to the world that Christ lives in us. Imagine a church filled with kindness—grudges would fade, unity would thrive, and unbelievers would be drawn to the love of Christ.
But let us not forget, beloved, that the greatest act of kindness ever shown was when God gave His Son, Jesus Christ, to die for us. Romans 5:8 declares, “But God commendeth His love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” This is kindness we did not deserve, but which we desperately needed. Perhaps you are here today, and you have not yet received this kindness. The kindness that forgives your sins, that gives you eternal life, and that transforms your heart so you can truly love others—this kindness is found only in Jesus Christ.
Friend, without Christ, your efforts at kindness will always fall short. You may do good outwardly, but the power to forgive enemies, love sacrificially, and live selflessly can only come from a heart changed by Him. Today, He extends His hand of kindness to you. He invites you to turn away from sin and accept Him as Lord and Savior. 2 Corinthians 6:2 reminds us, “Behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.”