Precious Predicaments

How woud you define character traits? Who are you and how did you become that way? When most individual think about character traits a person character flaws or defects are what often come to mind. However, what about the positive character traits that an individual possess. Also it is possible for an individual to change once they become aware that a trait they possess is not helping them grow in life.

Join myself and others as I talk about character traits. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914 at 2pm. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

When it comes to helping others there can be some benefits. However when has your help gone too far? We are approaching the holiday seasons and there are individuals that are in need or some assistance in a variety of areas. Many individuals can be family members, friends, coworkers or total strangers. One of the issues that many individuals struggle with is helping others as they are not sure if they are helping, hurting or enabling.  Let's talk about it. I want to hear your thoughts. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914.

Relationships are becoming very complicated. Many individuals are entering into relationships with different intentions and expectations. Join myself and others as today we will be talking about what attracts individuals into a relationship chemistry or compatibility? As well as what is needed to keep the relationship going? Often times one may say they was attracted to the individual. However what were they attracted to? Did the person have potential? Or could it be it was all in your head? Let's talk about it. Live 11/13/23 at 2pm Pacific. Hosted by Jeanette Abney. I want to hear your thoughts.

How would you describe a friendzone relationship? Have you been friendzoned with someone that you would like to have a dating or romatic relationship with? 

In popular culture it is said that friendzone is a relational concept, describing a situation in which one person is in a mutual friendship wishes to enter into a romatic or sexual relationship with the other person, while the other person does not. This concept can be confusing and may frustrate a person as they may be holding on waiting to be noticed for their good deeds only to watch the other person engage in relationships with another or others. The term friendzone was originally popularized in the sitcom television series Friends. The term can also be confused with a platonic friendship. Let's talk about it. I want to hear your thoughts. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

How do you define insecurity? Being perfect takes too much work and is difficult to achieve. However, many individuals are struggling with feeling insecure about a variety of things. Insecurity is an uncertainty or having an anxiety about onself. It is also considered a lack of confidence. Individuals can handle a certain level of insecurity from time to time however when such is impacting one's self esteem or self worth or perhaps causing difficulties within the relationships with others it may be time to address it. 

Join myself and other as we talk about insecurities and ways to overcome one's insecurities. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

When it comes to cheating or adultery what is the difference? Relationships and marriages can be complicated however cheating and infidelity are not the only things that can cause a breakup or end the relationship. When it comes ot being a cheater it does it comes from watching others perhaps in one's family or circle? Or is it the partners fault? Too often the partner will blame themself however this behavior can be for many different reasons. Let's talk asbout it. I want to hear your thoughts. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

Many individuals have a false sense of the word loyalty. One may also struggle with the quality of being loyal to another. How do one show or demonstrate loyalty. And what does the Bible say about loyalty? If you struggle with loyalty or feel that you are more loyal to others than they are to you let's talk about it. I want to hear your thoughts. To join in on the conversation call. 516-387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

Being a cycle takes courage. One would bravely have to decide to stand up against the status quo. In such case it is family traditions, habits, attitudes and beliefs. When one become sick and  tired and start to realize that certain things are not working in their life or may perhaps may be causing chaos as they relate to others it may be time to go back to where things may have originated. One may then decide to pursue their own values and needs even if so may cause chaos within their family. Being seen as the scapegoat is not fun. Nor is being told by others that one act like their parents. The change to breaking the cycle is possible. It can be challenging for many reasons but the growth to heal the emotional trauna, improve relationships, develop effective parenting skills, improve one's financial stability as well as their spiritual growth is worth it.

Forgiveness is a must. Also setting healthy boundaries teaches others how to treat you. Let's talk about it Some behaviors are an excuse. They can also  be a habit. Let's relearn and break the cycle to live a happier healthy life. I want to hear your thoughts. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

The month of October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Join myself and others as I will be providing information and sharing information as it relates to breast cancer. In 2008 at the age of 59 my mother passed away from breast cancer. A breast cancer diagnosis can be overwhelming. Treatment options have changed over the years.If you are someone you know is dealing with breast cancer I want to hear your story. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914 at 6pm Pacific. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

The month of October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. This evolved from the "Day of Unity" in October 1981 conceived by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. The intent was to connect advocates across the nation who were working to end violence against women and their children.

Domestic violence is prevalent in every community, and affects all people regardless of age, socio-economic status, sexual orientation, gender, race, religion, or nationality. Physical violence is often accompanied by emotionally abusive and controlling behavior. Domestic violence can result in physical injury, psychological trauma, and even death.

Domestic violence does not only happen to women, men can also be abused. There are different types of abuse: physical, verbal, sexual, emotional, financial and sexual. Children that witness domestic violence also can have a long term affect. There is a cycle of abuse. Many individuals also stay in their abusive relationship for different reasons. Help however is available. If you are someone you know is in an abusive relationship call 800 799-7233.

Join myself and Janice Freeman author of "She Got Up" as we discuss this sensitive topic. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. I want to hear your thoughts.