this week we're talking about confidence + self love, specifically what I think confidence really encapsulates.

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in this episode, i talk about whether or not I think it is necessary to have a "single phase". i struggled a lot with the fact that I never really had that single phase and feeling like I was missing out somehow and I didn't allow myself to explore life alone. if you're someone who is feeling like this in a relationship, it's okay!! you are probably presented with way more opportunities of growth than you think. single or not, the only person responsible for your evolution as a person is you.

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hi! today i talk about five things i learned after i left the US for the first time to go to Costa Rica. i talk about learning how supportive (or unsupportive) people around you can be, my experience being legal to drink, how traveling changed my relationship with food, making the most of my trip, and how america convinces you every other country is bad. i hope you enjoy :) my ig: @nicoleserbel

in today's episode (the first!!) i talk about my perception of the "purpose" of life. are we living in a simulation? are we going to heaven? are we supposed to make a groundbreaking discovery? everyone thinks of it at least once in their life, and everyone's perception of purpose is different. but i think i figured out something that is applicable to anyone in any situation, mundane or life changing. what do you think? feel free to shoot me a dm so we can discuss. my instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleserbel/