Meet the Pretty Messy Duo. While everyone was baking banana bread and learning tiktok dances during quarantine, we did the same AND decided to start a podcast! Behind the scenes of our passion project. Poor audio. Recording at 4:30am. Jessica talks too loud. Monique has a runny nose. Someone has the hiccups.

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*TRIGGER WARNING* Are you recently single and trying to pick up the pieces? Do you have feelings of shame or guilt? Do you want to know when coping ends and healing begins? Two years post-breakups we sit down and talk through the feelings we experienced after our long term relationships ended. Seven stages of grief, functional alcoholism, and casual hook-ups, we did it all. Jessica talks about her intense anger and it's not directed at quite who you'd expect. Monique shares how she masked her pain behind a brave face and how people pleasing kept her in denial longer than it should have. Get a peek inside our healing journey and learn the importance of surrounding yourself with a community you feel safe in.

This week's episode is somberly uplifting? Is that a thing...? We definitely went through hell and back, but at least now we can joke about it, right? Relationships don't always work out how you want them to, but the duo encourages all who are healing to take their time, grant themselves grace, and to remember there's a lesson in the mess. Have a question or comment, reach out to us on Instagram at PrettyMessyPodcast or shoot us an email at [email protected].

MOO-ve out the way Jessica, Monique is here to steal the show. We discuss her future husband(s?), new-found emotional boundaries, karmic lessons, relationship triggers and mainly prattle on about what we think a “healthy love” looks like because we’re still figuring out how to date. We have something in common with Bernie Sanders. Bumble boys come & go. Is TikTok the new dating app? Let's have hobbies we enjoy for the sake of enjoyment. Being a parent deserves more credit. ALSO...ghosting is still not okay. Feel free to reach out with questions or comments on our Instagram: PrettyMessyPodcast, or e-mail us at [email protected]

It’s Capricorn Season bb and we’re Live from the 5x5 (bedroom closet of Monique’s place). The Pretty Messy Duo start off 2021 celebrating their birthdays and reminiscing on their transformative 2020. So much gratitude. So much spiritual growth and so much self awareness. Monique gives Jessica a gratuitous podcasT annunciation lesson. Also...it’s okay to say I DON’T KNOW.

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The Pretty Messy Duo used 2020 to get creative which led them to admit they have ZERO structure, zero clue how to create a podcast and zero clue how to use the right vocabulary words in a sentence. One thing is for certain: Jessica and Monique are pillow snobs.

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It's game night and we're playing: We're Not Really Strangers. We describe our ~*pErFecT dAy*~ which consists of taking a train to the Maldives. We hack our exes phones. Monique also gives Jess some "constructive feedback".  

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