“If you don’t want to come back to prison, you have to become a square” – Steve Suwe
In this episode of Prison Unlocked, Dr. Karen Gedney sits down with Steve Suwe, a longtime Nevada Department of Corrections employee whose career began in recreation and eventually took him into casework, classification, inmate transportation, and administration.
Steve entered the prison system in the 1980s with a degree in physical education and no correctional experience. He wasn't looking for a career behind prison walls. He simply saw an opportunity to bring recreation into a place where boredom, isolation, and long stretches of empty time could quickly become dangerous.
What followed was anything but an ordinary recreation program.
Steve introduced games, contests, holiday events, athletic competitions and even live entertainment designed to give incarcerated men something positive to anticipate. His philosophy was straightforward: when people have something meaningful to do, the entire environment can change.
That philosophy led to some remarkable moments - including the day the Moscow Circus came to Northern Nevada Correctional Center, complete with horses, acrobats and performers on the prison yard.
But Steve's years inside also brought moments of real danger.
He recounts a terrifying confrontation in the prison gym when two intoxicated inmates armed themselves with baseball bats and began smashing through the reinforced windows of his office. Trapped inside while officers struggled to intervene, Steve suddenly remembered that earlier that day he had placed one extra baseball bat behind an ice machine.
What followed sounds almost cinematic - but for Steve, it was very real.
The experience gives Steve and Karen an opportunity to compare something they both endured during their careers: surviving frightening incidents inside prison and then returning to work with almost no emotional support from the institution.
Both describe an unexpected source of compassion afterward - the incarcerated men themselves.
Steve remembers walking back across the prison yard after the confrontation and hearing inmates cheering for him from the housing units. The next day, while staff largely carried on as if nothing had happened, inmates repeatedly asked him whether he was okay.
Karen experienced something remarkably similar after being held hostage in 1989.
Their conversation offers a rare glimpse into the complicated relationships that can develop inside prisons, where the traditional lines between "staff" and "inmate" don't always capture the humanity that exists between people.
Steve eventually moved from recreation into casework, working directly with incarcerated men on housing assignments, jobs, education, classification, parole reports and the decisions that shaped their lives inside prison. As an intake caseworker, he estimates that he completed the initial classification of more than 5,000 men entering the Nevada prison system.
Those years also gave him a front-row seat to one of corrections' most difficult problems: people leaving prison only to return again.
Steve began giving men a piece of advice that became almost a personal philosophy.
Become a square.
Get a job. Go home after work. Build routines. Take care of your family. Stop returning to the same places, people and behaviors that repeatedly lead to trouble.
He shares the story of one former inmate who later spotted him on a Reno street, pulled his Cadillac to the curb and proudly announced:
"I'm a square."
He had a job. A relationship. A routine. A life outside prison.
Steve never saw him inside again.
Another man planned his release differently. With Steve's encouragement, he moved away from his old environment, enrolled in truck-driving school and began building a completely new life.
Those successes reinforced something Steve had witnessed repeatedly: releasing someone from prison is not the same thing as preparing them to succeed outside of it.
For much of Steve and Karen's early careers, formal re-entry support barely existed. People could serve years - or decades - behind bars and then leave without knowing how to apply for a job, manage basic financial tasks or navigate a world that had changed dramatically while they were incarcerated.
The philosophy of corrections slowly began changing during their careers, but both remember an era when the prevailing attitude toward someone leaving prison could essentially be summed up as: we'll see you again.
Karen offers a different vision.
She describes prison reform through something resembling a medical model: prevent people from entering the system when possible, address the underlying problems while they're incarcerated, and provide meaningful support when they return to the community.
Steve's stories show why that final piece matters.
Throughout the conversation, Steve and Karen also reflect on the lighter moments - the humor, relationships and unexpected experiences that rarely appear in television portrayals of prison life.
And Steve speaks candidly about something that followed him long after retirement.
For months after leaving corrections, he dreamed about prison almost every night. Even years later, conversations with former colleagues can bring those dreams back.
It's another reminder that incarceration doesn't affect only the people serving sentences. The environment can leave lasting marks on everyone who spends years working inside it.
Ultimately, Become a Square is about more than one man's career in corrections.
It's about purpose.
It's about routine.
It's about the people who quietly try to make difficult environments a little more human.
And it's about the seemingly ordinary choices that can sometimes make the difference between returning to prison and finally building a life outside of it.
Prison Unlocked brings you raw conversations from both sides of the wall, hosted by Dr. Karen Gedney, who spent 30 years practicing medicine inside the Nevada prison system.
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