In this message, I reflect on many years spent around church life, ministry, and Christian conversation. Long enough to see trends rise and fall, and long enough to recognize how easily good intentions can drift into something harmful. One of the greatest temptations in Christian spaces, especially online, is the urge to fight, expose, and publicly condemn in the name of truth. Drawing from passages such as Acts 15, James 1, Romans 14, and 1 Corinthians, I explore why restraint is often an act of mercy rather than weakness. Even godly men can disagree sharply without turning disagreement into destruction. Scripture reminds us that the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God, and that knowledge is often shown through careful and intentional silence. This message considers the danger of shifting the focus away from Christ and onto controversy, personalities, or opposition. It reflects on Jesus' words about light, judgment, and humility, and Paul's warning about endless disputes that do not edify the church. Truth matters. Doctrine matters. But charity, self control, and submission to Christ matter too. My aim here is simple. To lift up Christ, to speak with restraint, and to trust that He is fully able to guard His sheep, expose error in His time, and keep His people in His hand. Grace and peace, and thank you for listening. 0:00 Introduction & Channel Updates 8:12 Today's Topic: On a Leash 15:16 The Temptation to Make Enemies Visible 18:36 The Spotlight Shifts from Christ 22:23 Romans 14:4 & Matthew 7:1-2 - Judge Not 25:47 Galatians 5:22-23 - Fruit of the Spirit 27:19 Why I Don't Name Names 28:54 Closing Thoughts & Christmas Wishes