Why are people who don’t please others so fascinating for us? Why are we attracted and repelled at the same time from them? Because most of us please others too much and are facing a constant inner conflict between being egoistic and pleasing people around us. We often don’t dare to just act selfishly, considering too much what other people may think about it. Myriam Ward herself worked a lot on this topic personally and has been supporting lots of her coachees to find out of that circle and listen better to their wishes and needs. She gives you tips and advice that help you understand better where this comes from and hands you the key questions to change your behaviours. It leads you to more authenticity, inner freedom and courage.
Episode Takeaways
The reason why we are strangely fascinated by hard-line leaders
Learn realizing how often you please others instead of listen to your own needs
How I myself discovered the power of “stop pleasing”
To disagree doesn’t mean you are not going to be loved (anymore)
Face the fear and overcome it, speak up for yourself
Research your inner self by asking the right questions
What joking around or intellectualize tell you about yourself
The role of values for you and your life and why they are related to this topic
