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Emotional attraction is a key ingredient in what makes us our bonds with those around us so meaningful and intimate. Are you looking for dating advice and flirting tips on how to find out whether someone you like is not just physically attracted to you, but emotionally as well? Or whether you're attracted to someone emotionally? Here are 8 tell-tale signs that can help you better understand if what you are feeling for someone may already be an emotional attraction or vice versa!      

Are you still looking for a soulmate? Or have you found the one yet? Though the advent of dating applications has made the search for “the one” easier, not every relationship works. Finding “the one” has become difficult.  Scientists have spent years trying to figure out the best qualities a potential suitor needs to bring into a relationship to make it a happy and long-lasting relationship. For those fortunate enough to find themselves in a long-term relationship and are thinking of settling down, it might be worth watching this video to see if your special someone has any of these character traits!

Do you have a crush on someone? Do you feel like your crush barely notices you? No problem! Here are some tips on how to get your crush to notice you!

Have you ever heard of a dark empath? I’m sure you’ve probably heard of the empath. But dark empaths, on the other hand, don’t necessarily rank high in affective empathy, but cognitive empathy, while also displaying dark triad traits. The dark triad comprises the traits of Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy. Those who are part of the Dark Triad personality type rank low in empathy and high in the three dark traits. Dark empaths can often use cognitive empathy to their advantage due to their dark traits. Want to learn more about dark empaths? Here are a few secrets they don't want you to know. 

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Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes and is not designed to be used to diagnose anyone with sociopathy/ psychopathy. Some people may have an underlying mental health condition that may cause these traits to be more evident, although this is not always the case. Also,  if you can relate to any of these signs, please do not take this feedback as an attack on your character.  This video was meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck.

So, what is your love language? And what does it say about you? When it comes to relationships, no two people show their love in exactly the same way. To help everyone understand the different ways one can give and receive affection, marriage counselor Dr. Gary Chapman developed the concept of the Five Love Languages, which include words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch.

Have you had to deal with some difficult people in your life? Did they put a certain type of strain on your relationship? While it’s true that no one is perfect, and everyone has their good traits and their flaws, there are some types of people that can cause you more harm than good. It might be best to avoid them for your own well-being and happiness. If you find yourself described in this video, that's okay! Sometimes, we got to work on ourselves and that starts with being self-aware, self-accepting, and knowing that growth is possible.

Do you have a toxic friend or a toxic family member in your life? Do you try to change them because you think you see the good in them they can’t see in themselves? Trying to help someone who can’t even help themselves can feel a lot like taking one step forward and ten steps back. Some toxic people just don’t change, especially if they don’t want to and it’s not your job to help them get better. So, here are the most common and most problematic types of people you cannot help.

Depression is a consuming illness that can take over the mind and body for a period of time. In this video, we talk about some things people with depression might hide. For example, feeling like an observer is sometimes known as dissociation. Feeling lazy and not wanting to get out of bed. Feeling withdrawn from friends and people. Depression can make people feel isolated.

DISCLAIMER: This is by no means a comprehensive list, nor does it apply to everyone with depression. If you think you are suffering from depression, please seek the help of a mental health professional, as this is only intended for educational purposes.   

Being in love is a mixture of joy and affection, combined with a feeling of contentment. And when you've found the one, you feel like you can deeply connect with them. Not only that, but your relationship with them also helps you grow as a person. Do you believe in soulmates? How do you know if you've found the one? Have you experienced intense and confusing feelings about someone, but you're unsure if these are signs you have found your soulmate? In this video, we take a look at how to know you’ve found the ONE.

Are you an empath? An empath is someone who is easily influenced by the feelings or emotions of others. Sometimes, to an extent, the weight of the world can be on their shoulders.

Because of this, an empath needs to develop healthy boundaries and coping mechanisms. In this video, we try to give 5 strategies you can use.

Feel free to share your own experiences!