Join me as I delve into the science and practice of compassion with pioneering psychologist Dr. Steven C. Hayes. Discover Dr. Hayes' groundbreaking work in contextual behavioural science, including functional contextualism, relational frame theory (RFT), and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Learn about the importance of psychological flexibility for living a meaningful life, the interplay between self-compassion and compassion towards others, and the need for a customised, process-based approach to therapy. Dr. Hayes shares insights on reducing prejudice, handling emotions like shame, and addresses the challenges in modern psychological practices. This episode is packed with valuable knowledge for anyone interested in mental and behavioural health.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Steven Hayes

02:31 Understanding Psychological Flexibility

04:08 Practical Examples of Flexibility

06:00 The Role of Emotions in Psychological Flexibility

08:52 Challenges and Misconceptions

17:27 Personal Stories and Lessons

29:51 The Complexity of Shame

37:04 The Trap of Self-Judgment

37:44 The Power of Forgiveness

38:27 Embracing Human Imperfection

39:32 The Slow Path to Healing

40:37 The Gift of Acceptance

44:31 Balancing Compassion and Self-Care

50:14 The Importance of Individualised Approaches

55:30 The Future of Compassionate Science

01:06:44 A Call for Global Compassion

01:11:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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LINKS:

Dr Steven C. Hayes website: https://stevenchayes.com/

Links to Dr Hayes's books can be found here: https://stevenchayes.com/books/

Check out PsychFlex: A whole new way to practice therapy! https://psychflex.com/signup/

Find out about The Institute for Better Health (IBH) here: https://www.ibh.com/

If you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here: https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480

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