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Public Speaking: How Overcoming This Fear Advanced My Career Beyond My Imagination

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Ironically, one of the biggest sources of fear can also be the key to career success. I know firsthand because I failed my Public Speaking class at night school. It wasn’t just nerves – it was so intense that my doctor had to prescribe medication to help me manage it. Standing in front of a room full of people, I could feel my heart racing. I struggled to breathe, and my mind blanked. This fear of public speaking is known as glossophobia, and it’s one of the most common social fears out there. But as I’ve learned, it’s also one of the most valuable career skills.

Table of Contents
  1. The Common Fear of Public Speaking
  2. Why Public Speaking Matters for Every Career
  3. Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking
  4. Techniques for Effective Public Speaking
  5. Final Thoughts: A Journey from Fear to Opportunity
The Common Fear of Public Speaking

Around 5-10% of the population experiences severe glossophobia. Approximately 25% of individuals experience moderate fear when speaking in public.

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It doesn’t matter if you’re in a boardroom, a classroom, or standing in front of a small team of coworkers – the anxiety can hit hard. This fear has even been known to outrank the fear of death! Yet, in every field, public speaking skills can be a game-changer for career advancement and personal growth.

Why Public Speaking Matters for Every Career

Public speaking isn’t just for executives or motivational speakers; it profoundly impacts all job types.

At first glance, public speaking skills may seem unnecessary for blue-collar workers, but they’re invaluable. My career advanced from industrial electrician to management at a major newspaper, mainly due to my ability to communicate effectively with my teams and our leadership team. A blue-collar worker who can communicate issues builds trust with prospects, customers, and their leadership team. Not to mention their ability to advance productivity through effectively communicating challenges and problems.

White-collar roles benefit tremendously from public speaking. In sales, effective communication is everything. Engineers who clearly present their work can make complex information accessible to all. For healthcare professionals, explaining diagnoses and treatments to patients in an understandable way can lead to better outcomes and stronger patient relationships. And in marketing, connecting with an audience through storytelling makes all the difference in client pitches and presentations.

Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking

My journey to overcome my fear of public speaking started when I volunteered to train new employees at my company. It was a safer setting, and with time, I gained confidence. Here are a few strategies I learned along the way that can help you, too:

  • Practice: Start small. Find opportunities to practice where the stakes are low. Volunteering to lead team meetings or speaking up in smaller groups can provide invaluable experience. When I failed my public speaking class, I contacted my HR department and asked about opportunities to teach within the organization. They had me start doing new employee training. I was terrible at first, but I grew my confidence over time and with regular sessions. If you’re ready to hit the stage and want a constructive, safe environment, seek out your local Toastmasters.
  • Confidence in Your Subject Matter: One of the most effective ways to reduce fear is to build confidence in your subject matter. When you are passionate and deeply understand your topic, you feel more prepared and empowered to answer questions or handle unexpected situations. Take time to research, review, and even over-prepare if needed – knowing your content inside and out gives you a foundation to fall back on, even if nerves strike. Confidence in your material allows you to speak with authority, making you less likely to be thrown off by anxiety and more likely to engage your audience naturally.
  • Visualization: This technique is powerful for easing anxiety. Visualization can take many forms. Just as athletes use visualization to prepare for a big game, public speakers can envision moments that build confidence before stepping on stage. You might imagine yourself winning on a battlefield, hearing the voice of a loved one cheering you on, or even setting a mental soundtrack that energizes you. Find a visualization that resonates with you – one that hypes you up and boosts confidence. This practice trains your mind to respond positively to the experience, making it easier to step in front of an audience with a sense of control and purpose.
  • Diaphragmatic Breathing: Fear and anxiety have a direct impact on our heart rate and breathing patterns. When fear hits, our heart rate accelerates, and our breathing often becomes shallow, reducing oxygen intake. This can make us appear restless or even gasping for breath, which then amplifies our feelings of anxiety. Diaphragmatic breathing helps to counteract this response. By breathing deeply from your diaphragm, you’re taking in an ample supply of oxygen before stepping in front of your audience. This steady breathing ensures that you won’t need to gasp for air even if nerves set in. Practicing diaphragmatic breathing helps calm your heart rate and keeps you looking composed, confident, and ready to take on the room.

    Practicing diaphragmatic breathing is simple and can be done almost anywhere. Start by sitting or lying down in a comfortable position. Place one hand on your chest and the other on your abdomen, just below your ribcage. Take a slow, deep breath through your nose, allowing your abdomen to expand as you fill your lungs. Focus on keeping your chest still while your stomach rises with each breath. Then, exhale slowly through your mouth, feeling your abdomen fall as you release the air. Repeat this process several times, aiming for each inhale and exhale to last around four to six seconds.
  • Stretching: Fear often causes physical tension, especially in the neck, shoulders, and arms, making us appear rigid and anxious. When we don’t move comfortably on stage – keeping our arms locked or avoiding head movements – it signals fear to the audience. Stretching before you speak can help alleviate this tension. Focus on gently stretching your neck, shoulders, and arms. Roll your shoulders back, stretch your neck from side to side, and shake out your hands to release any tightness. Moving your body helps you appear more relaxed and approachable, enabling you to naturally use gestures and body language that enhance your presence on stage.
    • Techniques for Effective Public Speaking

    TED Talks are a perfect example of public speaking mastery. TED speakers focus on a single big idea, keeping their message clear and concise. They use storytelling, vivid examples, and emotions to connect with the audience. Every TED Talk feels less like a lecture and more like an experience, proving that public speaking is as much about connection as content. Once you’re ready to take on more speaking engagements, these techniques will help you engage and resonate with your audience:

    • Storytelling: Humans are wired to connect with stories. Using personal stories can make your message more relatable and memorable. Think of any TED Talk you’ve enjoyed; chances are, it started with a compelling story.
    • Body Language: Your body language is a major component of communication. Stand with a strong posture, make eye contact, and use gestures to reinforce your points. This helps convey confidence and enthusiasm, even if you still feel those jitters.
    • Vocal Variety: Avoid a monotone delivery. Vary your pitch, tone, and speed to keep your audience engaged. Practice emphasizing certain words to create impact.
    • Capturing Audience Engagement: The best public speakers know how to draw the audience in. Ask questions, use humor, and relate to their experiences. Engage them directly to create a two-way conversation.
    • Presentation Skills and Slide Use: Slides can be a powerful tool when used effectively. Rather than packing slides with information, use them to highlight key points with minimal text and complexity. Think of slides as a backdrop to your speech, not the main attraction. Remember, less is more – a few impactful images or phrases are often far more memorable than a wall of text.
      • Final Thoughts: A Journey from Fear to Opportunity

      Despite overcoming my initial fear, I still feel anxious every time I step up to the podium. But I’ve come to embrace it as part of the process. Today, I’ve had the privilege of delivering keynote speeches, and the exhilaration of capturing an audience is unmatched. Public speaking has driven incredible success in my career and provided a side income, which I never expected.

      Public speaking led to my promotion from Industrial Electrician to the boardroom as I became more comfortable presenting to leadership. Public speaking led to my book deal for the Dummies Guide I wrote. Public speaking at events led to large corporations in attendance seeking my services when I owned my agency, including GoDaddy, Webtrends, and others. Public speaking led to my co-hosting a leading podcast with Dell. And, of course, it led to my current role as CMO.

      If you have a fear of public speaking, consider an online course. You can start building skills without the immediate pressure of standing in front of an audience. And, over time, you may enjoy it as much as I do. Public speaking is a skill anyone can develop, and its impact on your career could be the single most important investment you make.

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