Jeff of PurityCoaching.com talks about the importance of your recovery story. You have Deliverance stories and you have Work In Progress stories. He talks about the difference between the two.

Jeff Fisher of puritycoaching.com shares tips on how to travel and be successful in your purity journey. Practical tips. Straight truth. No fat.

On the last podcast we talked about our Porn looking behaviors.  Today we go deeper.  Our porn looking is driven by our porn longings.  And really, our longings are not for porn at all, but for much deeper things.

Here are the key points from the podcast.  Use these to help reflect an evaluate what's really going on underneath the surface.

Porn means something to you.

How does it make you feel?  (before, during, climax, after)

What are you in need of?

Jesus wants to inhabit those places

The spiritual battle for your heart is huge.

The sin / flesh battle is huge.  Your power is not enough.  Your solo devotion to Jesus is not enough.  You need "one another".

What alarms are going off inside you?  Not just an attraction to nudity or sexual things.  The visuals are triggers that set off something deeper inside you.

Intro / Outro Music:  “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com

Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal -  FreeMusicArchive.org

Why do you look at PORN? Why can't you stop when you want to? Why can't you stop your bad behaviors?

1. Your habit grew over time

2. Lots of physical things are happening in your brain and with your body.  Things that you like.

3. It feels good.  The brain chemicals.

4. You have influences in your past that have shocked you, pushed you and nudged you in this direction.

5. Key people in your life have encouraged you in the porn direction.

6. You have key "milestone" experiences in your past that you look back on as building blocks.

7. Your environment encourages you to access and look at porn.

8. You keep secrets.  You cover up, hide, lie, and deceive others in order to keep your secret.

9. You have no defenses.

10. You have no accountability.

11. You have no self-discipline.

12. You have no boundaries (rules, guidelines)

Intro / Outro Music:  “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com

Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal -  FreeMusicArchive.org

WHY DO YOU NEED A TEACHER?

You lack experience

You lack knowledge

Your thinking is immature

You have blind spots / self-deception

You need a safe person / place to practice winning and failing with

You need someone to challenge you

WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – TOP AWESOME 3 – GO FOR THESE

Purity ministry leaders

Sexual addiction support groups and leaders

Counselors that understand sexual addiction

WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – HIT OR MISS – BE CAREFUL WITH THESE

Ministers

Wise friends around you

Best friends|

WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – BOTTOM 3 – NOT YOUR TEACHERS

Spouse

General friends

Books / videos / podcasts

KEY CORE REALIZATIONS

You have to say “yes” to your need for a teacher

You have to say “yes” to making first contact

You have to say “yes” to continuing to reach out; persevere until you find the right teacher

You have to say “yes” until you find the teacher with the right chemistry for you

Intro / Outro Music: “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox

Jeff Fisher of puritycoaching.com talks about:

What hacks are.

How purity hacks can help you.

And he goes through the first hack you need to learn of Motivations.

HOMEWORK; Make a Top 5 list of reasons you want to stay pure, or reasons why you don't want to do certain sexual behaviors.

HOMEWORK: Reach out to someone else for help with your purity journey.

Meet Jeff Fisher, Director of PurityCoaching.com and PurityHacks.com.

Jeff shares a bit of his story and sets up the core values for the Purity Hacks Podcast.