Gender-diverse and non-binary youth make headlines - often at a cost to those kids. In this special series devoted to widening our circle of empathy for people who often feel marginalized or misunderstood, watch this insightful episode featuring Dr. Kimberley Manning, an advocate and parent ally, whose work challenges fear-based narratives and centers the lived realities of trans youth and their families.
Drawing on more than a decade of academic research, Kimberley traces the historical and cultural roots of gender diversity, dispels the myth that trans kids are “a trend,” and explains why parental support is the strongest predictor of well-being in trans youth. She also invites us to move beyond polarizing debates about bathrooms and sports, towards greater curiosity, empathy and understanding.
Together, we discuss:
Common myths and misunderstandings about trans and nonbinary children
Why increased visibility doesn’t make this a “fad”
The emotions parents experience when supporting a trans child
How families, schools, and public policies could be more inclusive
This conversation is about listening to trans youth—and the people who know them best.
00:00 Preview
02:04 Introduction
02:56 About Dr. Kimberley Manning
05:02 Kimberley’s backstory
07:23 Who are trans kids?
12:28 How media distorts the reality of trans youth
15:38 What second-wave feminism teaches us about trans visibility today
20:15 What happens when young people reconsider their gender path
23:06 What are some everyday challenges that trans and non-binary youth face?
28:23 How geography shapes safety and support for trans youth
31:36 How can parents be more supportive?
33:47 Why emotional labor still fall mostly on moms
38:46 Kimberley’s message to parents
43:50 Why parent support groups are important
52:40 Unpacking the sports bans for trans girls debate
01:00:47 What allyship looks like for trans kids
01:06:07 Dr. Kimberley Manning’s Purposeful Empathy story
Dr. Kimberley Manning is a Professor of Political Science and Women’s Studies at Concordia University whose work sits at the intersection of gender, politics, and power.
CONNECT WITH KIMBERLEY
✩ LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberley-manning/
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SHOW NOTES
✩ Donation Link (CA) https://extrweb.uvic.ca/donate-online/transchair
✩ Donation Link (USA) https://extrweb.uvic.ca/donation-forms/united-states
✩ Chair in Transgender Studies https://www.uvic.ca/research/transchair/index.php
For Parents
✩ Transgender Archives https://www.uvic.ca/transgenderarchives/index.php
✩ The Well-Being Gap https://apsc-saravyc.sites.olt.ubc.ca/files/2024/09/The-Well-Being-Gap-2024-Gender-Diverse-Report-2024-09-16.pdf
For Trans Kids
✩ Moving Trans History Forward https://www.uvic.ca/mthf2025/
✩ The Trevor Project https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
Video edited by Jad Misri, Green Horizon Studio