In this episode of Wild Soul Confidential join Tonya as she gets real about the divine feminine and leading through flow and not force and using your backbone and not becoming a doormat for others to walk on.

Women have been conditioned to believe it’s one or the other - nice or a ballbuster. Which has led to women embodying toxic masculinity to “get ahead” and “be successful” leading to burn out and exhaustion and unhappiness. Or to not be “that” other women have become doormats to not be perceived as “ball buster”. 

But there is a middle ground, it’s where women embody the divine feminine - flow and not force. Where hearts can lead, compassion reigns but so does fierceness and the ability to stand your ground, speak up, know your place and your roles. 

Women are tired of the “woman card” at tables we own and should be running. We don’t want a seat at a table that is divinely ours. Without women, nothing would exist. 

Knowing the difference between when to bring force and when to bring flow is ultimately the difference between having a backbone vs being a doormat. 

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