Parenting teens can feel confusing and exhausting — especially when connection starts to slip.

In this Thriving Kids Q&A episode, Dr. Dave Anderson from the Child Mind Institute answers real questions from parents about staying connected to teenagers during adolescence.

We cover:

• Why teens can be warm and talkative with other adults but distant at home
• How memes, TikToks, and inside jokes still count as real connection
• How to prepare teens for college and independence without constant conflict
• What to do when defiance and power struggles escalate
• How to respond when teens self-diagnose ADHD or other mental health conditions online

This episode focuses on relationship-first parenting, clear boundaries, and helping teens feel understood — so they’re more likely to come to you when it really matters.

Further reading 

• Help! My Teen Stopped Talking to Me – Child Mind Institute
• Tips for Communicating With Your Teen – Child Mind Institute
• Parenting a Defiant Teen: Expert Tips – Child Mind Institute