Queer Connections

Queer Connections

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Queer Connections episodes

  • 2023 Relationship Reality Check: Break Free from Illusions

    Welcome back to Queer Connections, everyone! Today we're diving deep into the transformative relationship lessons from 2023. 🏳️‍🌈 Venus retrograde sure did shake things up, and it's time we talk about it.

    In this video, I'll share with you the crucial insights I've gained throughout the year - insights that could revolutionize your approach to relationships in 2024.


    🔑 Here’s what we’ll explore:

    1. Living in Illusions: Unveiling the dangers of chasing perfection and the power of embracing authenticity in relationships.
    2. Serious but Not Personal: A guide to handling criticisms constructively while staying true to yourself.
    3. Nothing Ever Happens Suddenly: Understanding the subtle signs and gradual changes in relationships.
      4. 13 min
    4. The People-Pleasing Trap: Why 'Yes' Might Mean 'No

      In today's eye-opening episode, we're tackling the "Yes" Trap—the silent killer of genuine connections and authentic relationships.

      In this episode you will:

      • Discover how saying "yes" triggers a dopamine rush that can become addictive.
      • Learn why the quest for approval and validation is not just detrimental to your well-being but also a form of self-abandonment.
      • Gain groundbreaking strategies to say "NO" and "YES" authentically.

        • Are you a people pleaser? Take the quiz and find. out what type of pleaser you are. https://kitaadamscoaching.typeform.com/to/ezf1pY5q


        Ready to take your journey to the next level? Join our exclusive INNER CIRCLE for tips, strategies, and one-on-one coaching that will shift you into a realm of infinite worth and unshakeable confidence.

        CLICK HERE TO JOIN

        15 min
      • Decoding Love: Understanding Attachment Styles

        In this revealing episode, we journey into the intriguing world of attachment styles. Joining me is the charismatic and knowledgeable Kara Laricks, a respected dating coach and matchmaker from Three Day Rule. With her deep understanding of human connection, Kara helps us unravel the complex tapestry of attachment theory.

        We delve into the various attachment styles - secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant - discussing how each can impact our relationships and personal happiness. Understanding your attachment style, we suggest, is not about placing yourself in a box but about recognizing patterns and harnessing this awareness for personal growth and healthier relationships.
        Importantly, we also explore how those with insecure attachment styles can not only survive but genuinely thrive in their relationships. Kara shares valuable insights on how recognizing and understanding your attachment style can guide you towards more meaningful, fulfilling connections. We also discuss strategies for cultivating security within yourself and your relationships, regardless of your attachment style.
        The highlight of our conversation is a frank discussion on how to navigate a relationship when you and your partner have differing attachment styles. From communication tactics to empathy exercises, we offer practical advice that can help bridge the gap and foster a deeper bond.
        Whether you're single and navigating the dating scene or in a relationship and looking to deepen your connection, understanding attachment styles can transform the way you approach love. Tune in for an insightful exploration of how the heart bonds and the ways we can use this knowledge to enrich our love lives. You might be surprised to learn how these invisible strings of attachment are shaping your love story.

        If you are ready to take on your dating life to the next level and make it your last, then sign up for my 2-day virtual dating event at the link below:

        https://www.queer-connections.com/virtual-dating-event

        54 min
      • Ignite Your Love Life: The "Spark" vs. The "Slow Burn" in Dating

        In today's episode, we'll be unpacking a topic many of us grapple with on our quest for love: the elusive "spark" versus the steady, soulful "slow burn". Often, in our search for romantic connection, we're taught to chase that immediate, electrifying chemistry. But is that instantaneous spark always the best indicator of lasting love?
        We delve into why the "spark" might not be your best bet when it comes to long-term happiness. Sure, it's exhilarating, but can it be blinding, too? I'll be sharing my thoughts on how the pursuit of an immediate spark can lead us astray, causing us to overlook potentially profound connections.
        Instead, I propose a shift in focus towards the "slow burn" - a gradual kindling of feelings that can grow into a stable, passionate flame over time. We'll explore the benefits of this approach, including the depth of connection, the discovery of shared values, and the development of emotional intimacy that can only unfold with time.
        I'll also offer practical advice on how to cultivate the "slow burn" in your dating journey. From mindful communication to appreciating the beauty of the mundane, we'll discuss how to nourish a connection that can withstand the trials of time.
        If you're tired of chasing sparks that fizzle out and ready to ignite a love that lasts, this episode is for you. Let's transform your approach to dating and open up new horizons in your love life. Tune in and let's set your heart ablaze with a slow burn love story.

        29 min
      • How to REALLY use Astrology when Dating

        "My ex was a Leo, I'll never date another Leo again." "I'm not compatible with a Cancer". Many of us at some point have used astrology to determine how and IF we will date someone. But, are we really using astrology the right way?? In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the cosmos with a very special guest, Deb from Queerstrology. As an influential voice in the Queer community and a renowned expert in astrology, Deb brings a unique perspective to the celestial conversation about how to really use astrology when dating. We go beyond the well-known sun, moon and rising signs. In this episode Deb walks us through a Synastry reading where you get to discover how the often-overlooked importance of Venus and Mars placements in assessing romantic and sexual compatibility.Whether you're a seasoned astrology aficionado or a skeptical newcomer, this episode will inspire you to see the stars in a whole new way. Join us on this cosmic journey, and you might just find that your love story is written in the stars.Tune in and let's explore the universe of love together!

        Follow Deb on Instagram: @queerstrologySubmit your dating question to Kita. CLICK HERE

        55 min
      • Are You Ready to Date Again?

        How do I know if I am ready to date again? That is one of the most common questions I get from people all over the world. There will never be a sign that drops out of the sky that says, "Yes, it's time". Most of us probably feel like we don't need to be dating right now. We can be paralyzed by knowing IF we are really truly ready to date.

        In this episode, I will give you 5 questions to ask yourself to determine if you are ready to get back into the dating pool. These questions will give you clarity of where you are right now and where you need to be to before getting back out there to date.

        Check out the Conscious Queer Dating Program at

        https://www.queer-connections.com/conscious-queer-dating

        23 min
      • Make Your Next Dating Experience YOUR LAST

        I'm Kita Adams and I'm so excited to FINALLY launch my new podcast. In this first episode, I'm going to share a little bit about my journey and how I became a certified Queer dating expert and what you can expect from the show. This is not just about giving you advice. I, along with several of my friends, experts and relationship professionals, will be giving you tips, tools and strategies that you can use right now to transform all your relationships. This podcast will give you the chance to trust love one more time and always one more time!

        Check out the Conscious Queer Dating Program at

        https://www.queer-connections.com/conscious-queer-dating

        14 min
      • Welcome to Queer Connections

        Welcome to Queer Connections, the podcast where we explore the ins and outs of LGBTQ dating and relationships. Join us as we delve into the unique challenges and joys of forming connections in the queer community. I'm Kita Adams and I'm so excited to FINALLY launch my new podcast.

        Check out the Conscious Queer Dating Program at

        https://www.queer-connections.com/conscious-queer-dating

        1 min

      About Queer Connections

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      Welcome to Queer Connections, the podcast where we explore the ins and outs of Queer dating and relationships. Join us as we delve into the unique challenges and joys of forming connections in the queer community.