Queer Perspective

Andrew and Nom discuss the most controversial topic yet: Redemption...for men? Yikes. As always, follow and like on Instagram and TikTok, and rate on Spotify & Apple Podcasts.

TIMESTAMPS

4:24: “I am happy with my dry ass pussy, not.”

5:55: “99.999% of this violence is done by men, don’t quote that statistic.”

7:41: “You are a guy and I’ll be allegedly.”

15:35: “There is a huge gap between those two concepts that we should give them the benefit of the doubt but they are murderers.”

21:00: “Even talking about it I feel like a bad guy, but I don’t like the phrase men ain’t shit.”

24:55: “It is easier to relate to people when you don’t see them as villains.”

28:40: “Men don’t like women because men are raised to not have women traits.”

33:42: “With toxic men sometimes that is a manipulation tactic because you know, men ain’t shit.”

42:58: “You are talking about therapy on the first date?”

46:20: “But you dated an Aquarius so what were you expecting?”

In this episode, Andrew and Nom keep dunking on the patriarchy, talking about how it affects day-to-day. As always, follow and like on Instagram and TikTok, and rate on Spotify & Apple Podcasts.

TIMESTAMPS

02:00: “As a man, there is just something hot about a buff man.”

08:05: “Me as a woman I don’t know what I am into visually.”

14:30: “It's like gay panic but perpetually.”

22:15: “When you go to Europe and it is normal to kiss your bro as a bro.”

22:33: “People will call you gay if you wear pastels.”

30:38: “There is only one proper way for a man to fall in love.”

31:34: “When I guy is with their best friend, that is the happiest I have ever seen them.”

41:10: “Everything is political.”

45:05: “If you fall in love with a man, god forbid, I will still love you.”

53:27: “Go get fucked in the ass I don’t have time for this shit.”

In this episode about the patriarchy, Andrew and Nom talk about the patriarchy on a macro level: in dating and friendship dynamics and in everyday social contexts. As always, follow and like on Instagram and TikTok, and rate on Spotify & Apple Podcasts.

TIMESTAMPS

02:26: “We have been talking a lot about her or they?”

06:04: “Everything is designed for a cishet man as the default.”

12:32: “I am a queer person in a straight relationship and that takes away your queer card.”

15:35: “For my next trick I am going to be a lesbian.”

23:15: “As a queer person I just really want to see a woman with a woman.”

26:25: “LGBT friendly, there is a cute sister there.”

31:16: “Take a drink every time we mention this before in a previous episode.”

34:50: “He thinks he is this alpha male thing but gets winded walking up a flight of stairs.”

37:55: “Why are women getting more powerful and in more positions? Because nobody likes you, Brad.”

46:30: “He was the pipe piper and the rats were coming out.”

52:28: “Yes keep living, keep perpetuating the patriarchy.”

Happy new year! Andrew and Nom are back to talk about the inescapability of straight culture and try to figure out together where the other queers are. As always, follow and like on Instagram and TikTok, and rate on apple podcasts.

TIMESTAMPS

17:55: “I am like mother superior, or the 30 year old with his shit together.”

23:32: “There is nothing wrong with being an WHORE.”

24:08: “Good friends don’t eat pussy.”

35:08: There where alot of people that would pull me aside and tell me, ‘I don't understand the pants you are wearing.’”

42:33: “When you are so used to water being wet, do you realize your in the water.”

46:01: “Which lesbian are we talking about, so we can get her drugs.”

1:02:26: “There is sometimes when you break away to far from the mold and you go to the other extreme and you get Grindr.”

1:05:50: “Its just when men deal with sex they get stupid about it.”

1:09:27: “Somebody, apparently not far from me was called cumdumpster69.”

1:22:25: “Is that gender specific, or is that you are a very healthy person who goes to therapy.”

In this episode, it's Nom's turn to open up about parental trauma. Listen at your own discretion lmao. As always, follow and like on Instagram and TikTok, and rate on apple podcasts.

TIMESTAMPS

2:05: “I came out to my mom, and true mom fashion she told my dad”

9:23: “I would talk to my cousins about being gay AF”

28:56: “What if the universe decides to fuck with me.”

42:55: “It is a very straight lifestyle, very hetero.”

48:18: “The vibe was like my mom called me today and I wanted to say fuck you to her face.”

49:45: “You are becoming to be a DWAUKTER.”

52:33: “You really don’t understand non-white parents huh?”

1:03:55: “My mom was like, are you pregnant?”

1:08:24: “People don’t just wake up and so yo I am some shit today I want everyone to hate me”

1:15:29: “Me asking you for optimism, I am like Andrew why do you even bother.”

Andrew and Nom are determined to make this a therapy podcast! Next up is Parents. Andrew has been going through a tough transition and in a moment of grief, he thought it was a great idea to record a podcast episode. Nom, of course, obliged. As always, follow and like on Instagram and TikTok, and rate on apple podcasts.

In loving memory of Abiel Martinez (09/1962 - 09/2021).

TIMESTAMPS

8:04: “Dead inside, Capricorn energy”

15:43: “Today’s episode Andrew is dealing with trauma because his dad died.”

17:48: “I knew I would always have his love, but it was his respect that was hard to earn.”

20:37: “In Florida law about gun control is that there isn’t any.”

32:30: “You need a good nap and some soup.”

34:49: “Love is fake but it's extra fake if you are gay.”

47:57: “Death is like the ultimate forgiver.”

54:14: “When I look into my heart of hearts, yes I want to get dicked.”

55:16: “OOOOooo, a kid at 24 que scary! What is scary about it?”

1:20:30: “I knew this man all my life, but I didn’t actually know this man.”

Welcome back to Queer Perspective! In this episode, Andrew and Nom muse about gender and gender roles. 

As always, if you enjoyed this episode please let us know by subscribing to our pod, leaving a review on Apple Podcasts, and following (and messaging!) us on Instagram @queerperspectivepod and TikTok @queerperspectivepod.

TIMESTAMPS:

4:33: “The only reason I dress cis is default energy.”

6:42: “There is no way that I look at myself and my lifestyle and I say, ooh I am a Women™”

13:25: “I did 5-year-old cosplay as Chun-li, clipping clip-on ties into my hair.”

16:41: “When I dress super masc, when I look myself in the mirror I hold myself back from saying OMG Nom you are not pretty.”

26:00: “I grew up thinking that I was a different type of woman, not realizing that there is only one right lane to be a woman.”

29:52: “R.I.P Andrew's hair.”

37:47: “Normalize complimenting guys, and guys normalize taking compliments for what it is.”

51:24: “I feel ambivalent about my gender.”

56:46: “If you want to be like god, wear the crappiest clothes you have.”

1:05:41: “I am not seen as an actual person, just as a carrier of boobs and butt.”

Welcome back to Queer Perspective! In this episode, Andrew and Nom talk about Nom's experience being black and queer. As always, if you enjoyed this episode please let us know by subscribing to our pod, leaving a review on Apple Podcasts, and following (and messaging!) us on Instagram @queerperspectivepod and TikTok @queerperspectivepod. 

TIMESTAMPS:

01:24: “literally she started life … and she chose expert mode” “No not even, you know when you click and it was a mistake.”

04:52: “What could I have said to make them not racist.” 

11:54: “You can try harder at being lighter.”

19:05: “But I did have a guy though that was like you are the darkest girl I have ever dated.”

25:01: “And you give me a face of ‘I am not going to learn a different language to talk to racists’.”

1:05:28: “Finally we are getting to the queer parts.”

1:15:16: “She would wake up in the morning at 7 am and send me a text good morning, and I wouldn’t respond until 7 pm with hey I just woke up.”

1:22:21: “If you overlook the racism it's fine.”

1:26:57: “When they say what's your type and then say blonde or brunette you know they are not talking about black girls.”

1:37:32: “I live in a society that doesn’t prioritize me so my job now is to do that for myself.”

Welcome to Queer Perspective, hosted by your favorite gay lesbian duo: Andrew & Noemie! On this episode of Queer Perspective, Andrew & Noemie talk about their queer experiences studying and working in STEM. This is part 2 of 3, part 3 will be released in two weeks!

Follow us on Instagram @queerperspectivepod.

TIMESTAMPS:

03:45: “I love women. I wish they can all step on my face.”

04:38: “When you are a queer person it is almost an evolution of who you are.”

16:42 :“And I called her out, Fire girl realness.”

23:20: “He is so cool he is into sonic the hedgehog”

25:30: “Oh god I triggered a memory” Trigger warning: Skip to 30:38

31:39: “Trauma!?” “Traumaa!”

35:21: “Pivot. Lets get away from the Trauma.”

53:25: “I hustled the f*ck to get to this level and all these by people who were hand picked or had a connection.”

56:26: “It was just a sea of white women and it was scary.”

1:02:47: “Find that one teacher who is gay.”

Welcome to Queer Perspective, hosted by your favorite gay lesbian duo: Andrew & Noemie! On this episode of Queer Perspective, Andrew & Noemie unpack the trauma that comes with being a minority and queer. This is part 1 of 3, part 2 will be released in two weeks!

Follow us on Instagram @queerperspectivepod.

TIMESTAMPS

03:33: “Your lesbian, Haitian, and a woman, woof triple threat!”

14:38: “That is how you make an Andrew, Jehovah Witness and communist regimes.”

17:25: “Do you want to hear a sad story.” Trigger warning: skip to 18:37

19:38: “My family has a fucked up history, but I am perfect and my mom accepted me.”

26:45: “The more explorative of who I am and my identity, the more distance there is to the idea of what my parents want me to be.”

36:53: “Sometimes I feel like I am supported, and sometimes I feel like I am on an island.”

40:44: “Engineering is such a dessert for queer people.”

43:05: “Even when it is minorities assembling, I am still the minority within the minorities.”

50:39: “There is a certain amount of self awareness that I don’t want.”

1:03:22: “For engineering it was like on some days the gays assembled”