our beloved friend Jay James (she/her/they/them), aka Juicy opens up the portals of her personal experiences with polyamory, finding her sexuality, & the divine pursuit of sprinkling so much romance into a friendship, you wouldn't even know what you were lookin' at from the outside cos IT'S BIGGER THAN THAT :D we parsed out the nuances of privilege within these lenses & how blackness plays a part. big bites, ya'll, but we know you can chew! To follow JJJ's IG: @iamjuicyfierce